Can a Submissive be Dominant in Everyday Life?
A reader asks: First, you ask if it is a thing for someone to be submissive in the bedroom but […]
Can a Submissive be Dominant in Everyday Life? Read More »
A reader asks: First, you ask if it is a thing for someone to be submissive in the bedroom but […]
Can a Submissive be Dominant in Everyday Life? Read More »
On Friday evening Moineau and I made our way to the Chardmore Society annual street party in Hoxton, London. It
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A reader sent in this email: My husband and I have recently discovered BDSM. It happened very suddenly and the
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In this episode of Conversations with a Dom Jessica from Pleasure Island Parties and I discuss sex parties. Click play below to listen
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Atten-SHUN! Today I want to share with you the concept of inspection scenes and how to incorporate them into your
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Hello, Chief. I have been thinking a lot about being in a dominant/sub relationship. It is something that I have
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Moineau looked at me questioningly from her kneeling position on the rug. I realised I hadn’t given her permission to
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In this episode of Conversations with a Dom Moineau and I discuss subspace. We cover: What subspace feels like? [00:01:07]
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In this episode of Conversations with a Dom I answer questions from readers, including: Do Doms really care about/love their
Conversations with a Dom: Episode 2 – Reader Questions Read More »
A Rigger is a BDSM term used to describe someone who enjoys restraining their partner with rope bondage (sometimes referred
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A reader emailed me to ask if I’d written anything about aftercare. Below is her email and my response. I’m
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When dating as a submissive it is important to look out for Fake Doms. In this guide I’ll explain what
7 Ways to Spot a Fake Dom (and Why You Should Avoid Them) Read More »
If there’s one tip I could give anyone in a relationship it would be to communicate more. I’m sure you’ve
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As a beginner Dominant or Submissive you don’t have to make your BDSM scenes as intense as what is shown
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I love a good massage. Not in a sexual way. But in a “wow this feels incredibly relaxing” kind of
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As I thought back to all the BDSM scenes I’d been involved in, I realised there were five core themes
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Subspace is the feeling of being zoned out, floaty, melty, and spaced out felt by the Submissive after an intense
Editor’s note: Since writing this article both The Community and my rope bondage course mentioned below have launched. I don’t
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I love talking to other dominants and submissives about their experiences of D/s relationships. Be it beginners just starting out
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Last night I had a great session with my sub. It had been a while since we’d seen each other
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So you and/or your partner are curious about what happens at a sex party and are tempted to attend one.
So, You’re Interested in Attending a Sex Party… Read More »
Being an INTJ I love theory. I would prefer to spend an entire day reading about the psychology of arousal
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In this rope bondage tutorial for beginners you’ll learn the exactly what you need to know about Shibari bondage (Japanese
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A reader writes: So far, the “adventure” into the D/S lifestyle has been very good to us. But, I am
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Alright my little Kinksters. I don’t know about you, but coronavirus killed ALL my kinky plans for 2020. Not only
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We are still in the middle of the Coronavirus pandemic. Here in London we’re allowed to belong to one ‘support
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If you have kinky desires, want your partner to step up in the bedroom, or have a kink you are
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It’s the middle of the Coronavirus pandemic and you’re stuck indoors. Maybe you haven’t seen your sub all week and
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The term Rope Bunny is used to describe a person who enjoys being tied up with rope. This may be
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When I began my journey towards being a dom, I didn’t really know how to judge if I was doing
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There’s something kinkier about sex outside the bedroom than in it. So when my new shag pile rug arrived for
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If you have a desire to incorporate anal sex into your dom sub relationship then I’m here to help. Anal
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The one question a beginner dominant should ask themselves is, why am I doing this? If you are a dominant
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