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Conversations with a Dom BDSM podcast

E21: All about DDlg and CGl (Warning: May be triggering to some)

January 29, 2023 / 6 Comments

*TRIGGER WARNING* On this episode of Conversations with a Dom Chief and Moineau answer a reader’s question about DDlg. What […]

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Creepy man at a sex party

How not to be that creepy guy at a sex party

January 28, 2023 / Leave a Comment

I’ve been to a number of sex parties over the years. So many in fact that I can’t actually remember

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Conversations with a Dom BDSM podcast

E20: London Alternative Market, punishments, consent, and ChatGPT

January 22, 2023 / 1 Comment

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Chief and Moineau discuss their trip to L.A.M. (London Alternative Market); why

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Discovering your inner submissive. A step by step guide.

Discovering your inner submissive: A step-by-step guide to exploring your desires

January 8, 2023 / Leave a Comment

The world of dominance and submission, or BDSM, can be an exciting and fulfilling place for those who are interested

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Overcoming the fear of getting it wrong

The fear of getting it wrong: How to turn your greatest weakness into your greatest strength

January 8, 2023 / Leave a Comment

“I don’t know what to do”. “I can’t be a Dom until I’ve learned everything.” “How do I start when

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Conversations with a Dom BDSM podcast

E19: Happy New Year! Welcoming in 2023 with some D/s Questions

January 1, 2023 / Leave a Comment

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, the podcast about D/s and BDSM for beginners, Chief and Moineau reflect on

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Conversations with a Dom BDSM podcast

E18: Belle Talks About Her Experiences as a Beginner Submissive

October 9, 2022 / Leave a Comment

In this BDSM podcast episode Belle talks about her experiences as a beginner submissive, how she overcame shame around her

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What is a BDSM relationship?

What is a BDSM Relationship?

October 7, 2022 / Leave a Comment

Just what is a BDSM relationship? What does it involve? What sort of people participate? You’ve got so many questions,

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The one questions beginner subs always ask me

The One Question Beginner Submissives Ask Me Over and Over

October 6, 2022 / Leave a Comment

There’s one question I’ve been asked countless times over the years. How do I be a good submissive for my

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5 Things I've Learned as a Beginner Submissive

5 Things I’ve Learned as a Beginner Submissive 

August 30, 2022 / 1 Comment

I have known that I’m kinky for as long as I can remember, but it’s only recently that I have

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Confessions of a sub: Teasing and Begging

Confessions of a Sub: Teasing and Begging 

August 8, 2022 / 2 Comments

The Boss gently slipped the blindfold over my eyes and told me to lie back on the bed. He carefully

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5 Things You Should Know About Aftercare

5 Things You Should Know About Aftercare

August 5, 2022 / Leave a Comment

If you are new to BDSM you might not be familiar with aftercare. Aftercare refers to the soothing care provided

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5 things you should know about BDSM

5 Things You May Not Know About BDSM

August 3, 2022 / Leave a Comment

The world of kink and BDSM is massive. If you are new this can be both daunting and exciting. There

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Conversations with a Dom BDSM podcast

E17: Sub Takeover! Two Subs Answer Your Anal Sex Questions

July 31, 2022 / 1 Comment

Anal aficionado Moineau and anal virgin Belle answer questions submitted by readers of the Kinky Events community (Join here!) in

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Ann Summers Femme Fatale luxury thigh to cuff review

Ann Summers Femme Fatale Luxury Thigh to Cuff Restraint Set Review

July 23, 2022 / 7 Comments

I popped into Ann Summers on a recent weekend trip to Oxford. I don’t typically venture into Ann Summers as

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Conversations with a Dom BDSM podcast

E16: Rituals, Fitting D/s into Your Everyday, and Overcoming the Slump

July 9, 2022 / 2 Comments

In this BDSM podcast episode of Conversations with a Dom, Chief and Moineau discuss how they’ve recently hit a slump,

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When things go wrong in BDSM

Confessions of a Sub: When Scenes Go Wrong

July 9, 2022 / Leave a Comment

The Boss looked down at me on my knees in front of him. He stood confidently in the summer sun,

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how to get your dom to do what you want

How to Get Your Dom to Do What You Want

July 7, 2022 / Leave a Comment

I often hear Doms complaining of similar ailments in their relationship. They are fresh out of ideas and when they

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Coming out about BDSM

Coming Out About Your BDSM Desires

June 30, 2022 / Leave a Comment

Whether you are new to BDSM or a seasoned professional that has been working the scene, at some point you

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Tess and Kels from Squirm, the sex communication platform

Ep15: How to Talk About Sex with the Squirm Team

June 6, 2022 / 2 Comments

In this episode of the Conversations with a Dom BDSM podcast, Chief and Moineau talk to Kels and Tess from

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Why submission is essential in my relationship

Why Submission is Essential in My Relationship

June 3, 2022 / Leave a Comment

The room is dark. I am on my knees by the bed, waiting, head bowed, my breathing sharp and shallow.

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Better BDSM scene flow for Dom sub beginners

Three Tips To Get Your Scenes To Flow More Naturally

June 3, 2022 / Leave a Comment

You and your Dominant have been texting up a storm. They talk about tying you up to the bedposts and

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Confessions of a sub: Sex club debut

Confessions of a Sub: Sex Club Debut

May 3, 2022 / Leave a Comment

The Boss grabbed my hand and walked towards the door of The Townhouse. We’d been fantasising about exploring a sex

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Self care tips for submissives

Five Self-Care Tips for Submissives

April 25, 2022 / 4 Comments

Often in a BDSM dynamic, we can get focused on care coming from an external place. A Daddy-Dom caring for

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The power of a dominant and submissive dynamic

The Power of a Dom/sub Relationship

April 17, 2022 / 1 Comment

Not long ago during a Sunday evening in lockdown my wife asked me a question. “When was it that you

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Two people dressed as angels to represent good and bad dominants

10 Warning Signs You’re Dealing With a Bad Dominant: A Submissive’s Guide to Avoiding Insecure Men Masquerading as Doms

April 16, 2022 / 4 Comments

You know how your body reacts to just the thought of being dominated by a strong, powerful man? It begins

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Submissive woman and dominant man have a picnic al fresco

Confessions of a Sub: Sex Al Fresco

April 15, 2022 / Leave a Comment

Having sex outside is exciting: sun on bare skin, a soft breeze turning nipples hard, the possibility of being caught

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6 first steps for subs - a submissive guide

6 First Steps to Becoming a Great Submissive in a Dom/sub Relationship (In-depth Guide)

April 11, 2022 / 1 Comment

So you think you want to be a submissive, and you have found someone to be your Dominant. Perhaps the

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How to be a bratty sub

How to Be a Bratty Submissive (6 Guaranteed Ways to Rile Up Your Dominant)

April 10, 2022 / 6 Comments

Ah, the bratty submissive… The brat submissive is one of those I both love and hate as a Dom.  They

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Pet Play Basics in Dominant and submissive relationships

The Basics of Pet Play

April 1, 2022 / 1 Comment

What is pet play? It is a form of D/s relationship in which the Dominant takes on the role of

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Conversations with a Dom BDSM podcast

Ep14: Subdrop, Aftercare, and Other D/s Stuff (Wisdom Talk)

March 29, 2022 / 2 Comments

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Chief and Moineau experiment with Wisdom, an app where mentors can give

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Woman stands by window

Confessions of a Sub: First Time Scene Nerves

March 29, 2022 / 1 Comment

I lifted a corner of the satin blindfold from my eyes and took one last peek around the living room.

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What do submissives crave from their Dominants?

The One Thing Your Submissive Craves

March 24, 2022 / 6 Comments

To the completely untrained eye, it can appear as though us submissives crave violence. It can definitely seem that way

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