10 Warning Signs You’re Dealing With a Bad Dominant: A Submissive’s Guide to Avoiding Insecure Men Masquerading as Doms
You know how your body reacts to just the thought of being dominated by a strong, powerful man? It begins […]
You know how your body reacts to just the thought of being dominated by a strong, powerful man? It begins […]
Having sex outside is exciting: sun on bare skin, a soft breeze turning nipples hard, the possibility of being caught
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I lifted a corner of the satin blindfold from my eyes and took one last peek around the living room.
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I was immediately sceptical when I heard the popular streaming service had released a new BDSM film. Without throwing shade
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In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, the podcast all about dominants and submissive’s, Moineau asks Chief some personal
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First up, the obligatory “not all guys” is needed. Some guys don’t enjoy anal sex, and some do. Some women
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Nervous about dominating a submissive for the first time? Then you’ve come to the right place. These ten tips will
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I want to share one exercise you can use to have kinkier fun. Don’t dismiss it due to it’s simplicity.
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In this episode of Conversations with a Dom (a BDSM podcast for beginners) I browse through the BDSM subreddit for
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I frequently get berated in comments on articles or via email about my lack of inclusivity. Some people feel that
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In this week’s episode of Conversations with a Dom Moineau and I are joined by Rosa Maxwell, a sex, love,
Chief and Moineau take on Buzzfeed’s sex quiz in a head to head battle in this week’s episode of the
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Every heard the phrase Total Power Exchange in the context of BDSM and wondered what it meant? Or someone mentioning
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In this week’s episode of the Conversations with a Dom podcast, Chief and Moineau delve into Reddit to answer questions
When my partners first told me they were submissive and wanted me to dominate them, I didn’t know what they
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Chief discusses the trials and tribulations of dating when both kinky and non-monogamous. He discusses the best places to meet
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In this week’s episode of Conversations of a Dom, I chat with Seren Sins, a London based female Dom, and
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A reader emailed me to ask if one of their hard limits would make it difficult for them to find
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In this podcast episode, Chief and Moineau discuss the Dual Control Model of sexual response, and take the sexual temperament
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In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Moineau and I discuss how to introduce kink and D/s (Dominance and
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, I discuss tips for those who are new to D/s and want
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A reader wrote to me about her struggles to decide if she is a sub or not. Below is my
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I recently had a question from a reader who is learning what it means to be a Dom. They wrote
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I’ve discussed my desire to host kinky parties in previous articles. Now I’ve moved home I have the luxury of
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A reader asks: First, you ask if it is a thing for someone to be submissive in the bedroom but
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