E46: 30 surprisingly simple exercises to supercharge communication and transform your sex life!
Chief presents 30 varied exercises designed to improve communication skills within BDSM and D/s relationships. These activities aim to deepen […]
E45: Relaxed intimacy: Sexting, massage, teasing, and edging – Oh My!
Chief and Moineau share a candid conversation about their recent intimate and sensual experience. They discuss reading explicit sexting exchanges,
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Kinky and curious? 6 beginner-friendly BDSM ideas to try tonight!
If you’re curious about trying BDSM in the bedroom but aren’t sure where to start, you’re in the right place.
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Living the kinky life: How to overcome the stigma of BDSM in a judgmental world
Sarah and her partner had just started exploring BDSM together, and after months of deepening their connection, Sarah felt confident
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From Bland Hookups to 6-Hour BDSM Session: Woman Ditches Vanilla Dating for Dominant Bliss
The following is a submission by a female reader based on London who emailed to share her first experience of
E44: Sex Menu walk-through (have our tastes changed!?)
Chief and Moineau revisit their Sex Menus from March 2020, and chat through what’s changed and what hasn’t. This episode
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E43: Finding BDSM events and making friends
Chief and Moineau spill the beans on finding BDSM events and making kinky friends. It’s a no-holds-barred chat filled with
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E42: A new sub discusses her experiences 3 months after introducing BDSM into an 11-year relationship
Chief and Moineau sit down with Liz who recently introduced D/s into an existing long-term relationship. With humour and candidness,
E41: 8 Common BDSM myths debunked
In this episode Chief clears up misconceptions about the BDSM and Dom/sub lifestyle. With a wealth of experience and knowledge,
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BDSM for Beginners: Everything You Need to Know to Get Started
Welcome to the fascinating world of BDSM, a place where fantasy meets reality, boundaries are explored with respect, and consent
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Debunking 8 common BDSM myths
It’s Chief here, diving deep into the world of BDSM and D/S (Dominance and submission) to shed light on some
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E40: What’s it like visiting a professional Dominatrix?
What’s it REALLY like to visit a professional Dominatrix? In this episode of Conversations wtih a Dom Chief, Moineau, and
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8 things you should know before visiting a professional Dominatrix
Thinking about visiting a professional Dominatrix? What’s it really like? Diving into the world of professional BDSM isn’t just about
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E39: Autism and Kink, Pup Play, and Puppy Ireland with Puppy Ripley
In this BDSM podcast episode, we dive deep into the world of pup play, and neurodivergence. Joining us as our
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Healthy vs abusive and manipulative BDSM relationships (advice you need to hear)
In the KE community and via the comments on my guides, I get the sense that people are mistaking abusive
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4 exciting flavours of power play to explore as a BDSM beginner (with 50+ examples)
Welcome to the world of power play, where the thrill of dominance and submission can bring an electrifying edge to
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11 reflections on being a BDSM educator in 2023: Looking, learning, and a lot of work
Hey, kinksters. 2023 has been a year filled with ups, downs, and a few sideways glances. I wanted to write
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10 fundamental guidelines to follow for a healthy and happy BDSM relationship
It’s easy to get bogged down in the complexities of BDSM as a beginner. But really, there are just a
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5 reasons an online BDSM course beats an in-person one
So you’ve stumbled across this website because you’re curious about BDSM and want to learn more. Should you do an
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How do I introduce BDSM into a long-term relationship as a Dominant?
A reader recently emailed me this (some parts changed to keep it anonymous): As a new dom my personal challenge
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Sub Drop: A Comprehensive Guide to Sub Drop in BDSM
Sub Drop. It’s the emotional hangover of BDSM, and trust me, it’s real. “Sub Drop” (sometimes written Sub-drop or Subdrop)
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E38: Stop overthinking your Dom/sub dynamic
Do you overthink your BDSM scenes or D/s dynamic? In this BDSM podcast episode, Chief shares his thoughts on why
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E37: Professional Dominatrix Miss Mae Ling shares her secrets
Chief and Moineau chat with Miss Mae Ling, a professional Dominatrix living in Los Angeles. How did she come to
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E36: What sexual fantasy could you never tell your partner about?
In this BDSM podcast episode, Chief and Moineau discuss a Reddit thread titled ‘Wives of Reddit, what is a sexual
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Public BDSM: 5 ways to get kinky in public without anyone knowing
The world of BDSM and public kink is an exhilarating and often controversial realm that is continually subject to debate
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E35: We discuss our first sensual dominance public performance
Get ready for a sizzling rollercoaster of emotions in this electrifying episode! Join us as we delve into the uncharted
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E34: How to Powerplay in Public (5 Ways)
Could you imagine showing up to a Shakespearean play in full gimp attire? Talk about a culture shock! In this
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E33: The Psychology of the Pleasure Dom
In this BDSM podcast episode Chief and Moineau discuss the Pleasure Dom. Have you ever wondered about the intriguing world
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The boot worship kink
Boot worship is a BDSM kink or fetish where individuals derive sexual arousal and enjoyment from boots. It is one
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The Pleasure Dom (what it is and how to be one)
Key takeaways I’ll admit that I hadn’t heard the term Pleasure Dom until fairly recently. Typically when I hear the
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DDLG: A complete guide to Daddy Dom little girl dynamics
DDlg stands for Daddy Dom/little girl. It’s a form of BDSM roleplay where two adults consent to talking on roles
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4 ways to avoid topping from the bottom
Topping from the bottom is when a person who has agreed to relinquish power in a power-play dynamic attempts to
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What is impact play? (and should you try it…)
Impact play is a form of BDSM that involves consensual striking or hitting of the body for pleasure. It can
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