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Confessions of a sub: Sex club debut

Confessions of a Sub: Sex Club Debut

May 3, 2022 May 3, 2022 / Leave a Comment

The Boss grabbed my hand and walked towards the door of The Townhouse. We’d been fantasising about exploring a sex …

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Self care tips for submissives

Five Self-Care Tips for Submissives

April 25, 2022 April 25, 2022 / 2 Comments

Often in a BDSM dynamic, we can get focused on care coming from an external place. A Daddy-Dom caring for …

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The power of a dominant and submissive dynamic

The Power of a Dom/sub Relationship

April 17, 2022 April 17, 2022 / Leave a Comment

Not long ago during a Sunday evening in lockdown my wife asked me a question. “When was it that you …

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Two people dressed as angels to represent good and bad dominants

10 Warning Signs You’re Dealing With a Bad Dominant: A Submissive’s Guide to Avoiding Insecure Men Masquerading as Doms

April 16, 2022 April 16, 2022 / Leave a Comment

You know how your body reacts to just the thought of being dominated by a strong, powerful man? It begins …

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Submissive woman and dominant man have a picnic al fresco

Confessions of a Sub: Sex Al Fresco

April 15, 2022 April 15, 2022 / Leave a Comment

Having sex outside is exciting: sun on bare skin, a soft breeze turning nipples hard, the possibility of being caught …

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6 first steps for subs - a submissive guide

6 First Steps to Becoming a Great Submissive in a Dom/sub Relationship (In-depth Guide)

April 11, 2022 April 11, 2022 / Leave a Comment

So you think you want to be a submissive, and you have found someone to be your Dominant. Perhaps the …

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How to be a bratty sub

How to Be a Bratty Submissive (6 Guaranteed Ways to Rile Up Your Dominant)

April 10, 2022 April 19, 2022 / Leave a Comment

Ah, the bratty submissive… The brat submissive is one of those I both love and hate as a Dom.  They …

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Pet Play Basics in Dominant and submissive relationships

The Basics of Pet Play

April 1, 2022 April 1, 2022 / Leave a Comment

What is pet play? It is a form of D/s relationship in which the Dominant takes on the role of …

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Conversations with a Dom

Ep14: Subdrop, Aftercare, and Other D/s Stuff (Wisdom Talk)

March 29, 2022 March 29, 2022 / 2 Comments

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Chief and Moineau experiment with Wisdom, an app where mentors can give …

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Woman stands by window

Confessions of a Sub: First Time Scene Nerves

March 29, 2022 March 29, 2022 / 1 Comment

I lifted a corner of the satin blindfold from my eyes and took one last peek around the living room. …

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What do submissives crave from their Dominants?

The One Thing Your Submissive Craves

March 24, 2022 March 24, 2022 / 2 Comments

To the completely untrained eye, it can appear as though us submissives crave violence. It can definitely seem that way …

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Reigniting passion in a dom sub relationship

Reigniting the Passion in an Ever Evolving Dom/Sub Dynamic

March 23, 2022 March 23, 2022 / Leave a Comment

If you are currently in a D/s relationship, at this point you and your partner have taken the time to …

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BDSM film love and leashes is available on Netflix

Love and Leashes: 11 Quotes from Netflix’s New Korean BDSM Film (Reviewed by a Real Submissive)

March 19, 2022 March 19, 2022 / Leave a Comment

I was immediately sceptical when I heard the popular streaming service had released a new BDSM film. Without throwing shade …

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24 Dirty talk phrases for submissives

24 Dirty Things to Say to Your Boyfriend During Sex to Make Him More Dominant

March 17, 2022 March 17, 2022 / 2 Comments

Does your boyfriend or husband need a little encouragement to unleash his inner dominant in the bedroom? The 24 dirty …

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Conversations with a Dom

Ep 13: Moineau asks Chief about His Kinky Beginnings (Plus Other Questions)

February 27, 2022 February 27, 2022 / Leave a Comment

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, the podcast all about dominants and submissive’s, Moineau asks Chief some personal …

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Why do men enjoy anal sex?

Why do guys like anal sex so much?

February 20, 2022 April 19, 2022 / 2 Comments

First up, the obligatory “not all guys” is needed. Some guys don’t enjoy anal sex, and some do. Some women …

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Article on Tips for dominating a submissive for the first time

10 Quick Tips For A Successful First Time Dominating A Submissive

February 14, 2022 February 14, 2022 / Leave a Comment

Nervous about dominating a submissive for the first time? Then you’ve come to the right place. These ten tips will …

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Improve your sex life by knowing your core desires

A Five Minute Core Desires Exercise Which Leads to Hotter Sex

February 11, 2022 February 11, 2022 / 5 Comments

I want to share one exercise you can use to have kinkier fun. Don’t dismiss it due to it’s simplicity. …

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Conversations with a Dom

Ep 12: Answering BDSM Questions From Reddit

February 9, 2022 February 9, 2022 / Leave a Comment

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom (a BDSM podcast for beginners) I browse through the BDSM subreddit for …

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Do I disagree with female Dominants?

Why Are Many of My Articles About Male Doms and Female Subs?

February 6, 2022 February 6, 2022 / 1 Comment

I frequently get berated in comments on articles or via email about my lack of inclusivity. Some people feel that …

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Rosa Maxwell is a Sex, Love and Relationship coach in London

Ep 11: Liberating Your Sexual Desire with Rosa Maxwell (A Sex, Love & Relationship Coach)

December 9, 2021 February 9, 2022 / Leave a Comment

In this week’s episode of Conversations with a Dom Moineau and I are joined by Rosa Maxwell, a sex, love, …

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Conversations with a Dom

Ep 10: Who Knows More About Sex?

December 2, 2021 November 29, 2021 / Leave a Comment

Chief and Moineau take on Buzzfeed’s sex quiz in a head to head battle in this week’s episode of the …

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Total Power Exchange

Total Power Exchange: An Overview of the TPE Kink

November 27, 2021 November 27, 2021 / Leave a Comment

Every heard the phrase Total Power Exchange in the context of BDSM and wondered what it meant? Or someone mentioning …

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Conversations with a Dom

Ep 9: Chief and Moineau Answer BDSM Questions From Reddit (Conversations with a Dom Podcast)

November 25, 2021 November 30, 2021 / Leave a Comment

In this week’s episode of the Conversations with a Dom podcast, Chief and Moineau delve into Reddit to answer questions …

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What being a Dom really means

What Being a Dominant REALLY Means

November 22, 2021 November 22, 2021 / 11 Comments

When my partners first told me they were submissive and wanted me to dominate them, I didn’t know what they …

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Conversations with a Dom

Ep 8: Dating When Kinky and Non-Monogamous (Conversations with a Dom Podcast)

November 18, 2021 November 11, 2021 / Leave a Comment

Chief discusses the trials and tribulations of dating when both kinky and non-monogamous. He discusses the best places to meet …

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Conversations with a Dom

Ep 7: Chief and Moineau Chat to Seren Sins (A Female Dom)

November 11, 2021 November 14, 2021 / Leave a Comment

In this week’s episode of Conversations of a Dom, I chat with Seren Sins, a London based female Dom, and …

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Do I disagree with female Dominants?

Is Exhibitionism Always Part of a Dom sub Dynamic?

November 8, 2021 November 8, 2021 / Leave a Comment

A reader emailed me to ask if one of their hard limits would make it difficult for them to find …

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Conversations with a Dom

Ep 6: Chief and Moineau Take a Sexual Temperament Quiz (Conversation with a Dom Podcast)

November 4, 2021 November 14, 2021 / Leave a Comment

In this podcast episode, Chief and Moineau discuss the Dual Control Model of sexual response, and take the sexual temperament …

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Conversations with a Dom

Conversations with a Dom: Ep 5 – How to Introduce Kink and D/s Power Play Into Your Relationship

October 28, 2021 October 29, 2021 / Leave a Comment

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Moineau and I discuss how to introduce kink and D/s (Dominance and …

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Conversations with a Dom

Ep 4: Tips for Beginner Dominants (Conversations with a Dom Podcast)

October 21, 2021 November 14, 2021 / Leave a Comment

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, I discuss tips for those who are new to D/s and want …

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Do I disagree with female Dominants?

A Reader Asks: Am I a Fake Sub?

September 2, 2021 September 2, 2021 / 4 Comments

A reader wrote to me about her struggles to decide if she is a sub or not. Below is my …

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Do I disagree with female Dominants?

A Short Perspective on Dom/sub Relationships

September 1, 2021 September 1, 2021 / 1 Comment

I recently had a question from a reader who is learning what it means to be a Dom. They wrote …

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