15 BDSM Training Ideas and Exercises
I was disappointed at the quality of BDSM training I saw online. I wanted more in-depth information. I wanted it […]
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I was disappointed at the quality of BDSM training I saw online. I wanted more in-depth information. I wanted it […]
15 BDSM Training Ideas and Exercises Read More »
Ready to inject a kinky spark into your relationship? Whether you’re just curious about BDSM or already dipping your toes
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Curious about switching roles in BDSM? Being a “switch” means enjoying both dominant and submissive roles, depending on the situation
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The concept of forcing your partner to be in bed by a specific time may sound unusual at first, but
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Consensual non-consent (often shortened to CNC) is a kink where partners consensually agree to role-play a scenario that mimics non-consent.
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BDSM, and those who practice it, still attract cynicism, and carry the weight of social stigma. Even in today’s more
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You’ve heard about submission, maybe even felt drawn to it, but you’re not sure if it’s really for you. That’s
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Chief and Moineau discuss Stephanie Goylich’s book ‘With Sprinkles on Top’ and the importance of communication in bridging the gap
Chief presents 30 varied exercises designed to improve communication skills within BDSM and D/s relationships. These activities aim to deepen
Chief and Moineau share a candid conversation about their recent intimate and sensual experience. They discuss reading explicit sexting exchanges,
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If you’re curious about trying BDSM in the bedroom but aren’t sure where to start, you’re in the right place.
Kinky and curious? 6 beginner-friendly BDSM ideas to try tonight! Read More »
Sarah and her partner had just started exploring BDSM together, and after months of deepening their connection, Sarah felt confident
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The following is a submission by a female reader based on London who emailed to share her first experience of
Chief and Moineau revisit their Sex Menus from March 2020, and chat through what’s changed and what hasn’t. This episode
E44: Sex Menu walk-through (have our tastes changed!?) Read More »
Chief and Moineau spill the beans on finding BDSM events and making kinky friends. It’s a no-holds-barred chat filled with
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Chief and Moineau sit down with Liz who recently introduced D/s into an existing long-term relationship. With humour and candidness,
In this episode Chief clears up misconceptions about the BDSM and Dom/sub lifestyle. With a wealth of experience and knowledge,
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Welcome to the fascinating world of BDSM, a place where fantasy meets reality, boundaries are explored with respect, and consent
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It’s Chief here, diving deep into the world of BDSM and D/S (Dominance and submission) to shed light on some
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What’s it REALLY like to visit a professional Dominatrix? In this episode of Conversations wtih a Dom Chief, Moineau, and
E40: What’s it like visiting a professional Dominatrix? Read More »
Thinking about visiting a professional Dominatrix? What’s it really like? Diving into the world of professional BDSM isn’t just about
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In this BDSM podcast episode, we dive deep into the world of pup play, and neurodivergence. Joining us as our
E39: Autism and Kink, Pup Play, and Puppy Ireland with Puppy Ripley Read More »
In the KE community and via the comments on my guides, I get the sense that people are mistaking abusive
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Welcome to the world of power play, where the thrill of dominance and submission can bring an electrifying edge to
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Hey, kinksters. 2023 has been a year filled with ups, downs, and a few sideways glances. I wanted to write
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It’s easy to get bogged down in the complexities of BDSM as a beginner. But really, there are just a
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So you’ve stumbled across this website because you’re curious about BDSM and want to learn more. Should you do an
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A reader recently emailed me this (some parts changed to keep it anonymous): As a new dom my personal challenge
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Sub Drop. It’s the emotional hangover of BDSM, and trust me, it’s real. “Sub Drop” (sometimes written Sub-drop or Subdrop)
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Do you overthink your BDSM scenes or D/s dynamic? In this BDSM podcast episode, Chief shares his thoughts on why
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