Confessions of a Sub: Sex Club Debut
The Boss grabbed my hand and walked towards the door of The Townhouse. We’d been fantasising about exploring a sex …
Five Self-Care Tips for Submissives
Often in a BDSM dynamic, we can get focused on care coming from an external place. A Daddy-Dom caring for …
The Power of a Dom/sub Relationship
Not long ago during a Sunday evening in lockdown my wife asked me a question. “When was it that you …
10 Warning Signs You’re Dealing With a Bad Dominant: A Submissive’s Guide to Avoiding Insecure Men Masquerading as Doms
You know how your body reacts to just the thought of being dominated by a strong, powerful man? It begins …
Confessions of a Sub: Sex Al Fresco
Having sex outside is exciting: sun on bare skin, a soft breeze turning nipples hard, the possibility of being caught …
6 First Steps to Becoming a Great Submissive in a Dom/sub Relationship (In-depth Guide)
So you think you want to be a submissive, and you have found someone to be your Dominant. Perhaps the …
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How to Be a Bratty Submissive (6 Guaranteed Ways to Rile Up Your Dominant)
Ah, the bratty submissive… The brat submissive is one of those I both love and hate as a Dom. They …
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The Basics of Pet Play
What is pet play? It is a form of D/s relationship in which the Dominant takes on the role of …
Ep14: Subdrop, Aftercare, and Other D/s Stuff (Wisdom Talk)
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Chief and Moineau experiment with Wisdom, an app where mentors can give …
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Confessions of a Sub: First Time Scene Nerves
I lifted a corner of the satin blindfold from my eyes and took one last peek around the living room. …
The One Thing Your Submissive Craves
To the completely untrained eye, it can appear as though us submissives crave violence. It can definitely seem that way …
Reigniting the Passion in an Ever Evolving Dom/Sub Dynamic
If you are currently in a D/s relationship, at this point you and your partner have taken the time to …
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Love and Leashes: 11 Quotes from Netflix’s New Korean BDSM Film (Reviewed by a Real Submissive)
I was immediately sceptical when I heard the popular streaming service had released a new BDSM film. Without throwing shade …
24 Dirty Things to Say to Your Boyfriend During Sex to Make Him More Dominant
Does your boyfriend or husband need a little encouragement to unleash his inner dominant in the bedroom? The 24 dirty …
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Ep 13: Moineau asks Chief about His Kinky Beginnings (Plus Other Questions)
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, the podcast all about dominants and submissive’s, Moineau asks Chief some personal …
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Why do guys like anal sex so much?
First up, the obligatory “not all guys” is needed. Some guys don’t enjoy anal sex, and some do. Some women …
10 Quick Tips For A Successful First Time Dominating A Submissive
Nervous about dominating a submissive for the first time? Then you’ve come to the right place. These ten tips will …
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A Five Minute Core Desires Exercise Which Leads to Hotter Sex
I want to share one exercise you can use to have kinkier fun. Don’t dismiss it due to it’s simplicity. …
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Ep 12: Answering BDSM Questions From Reddit
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom (a BDSM podcast for beginners) I browse through the BDSM subreddit for …
Why Are Many of My Articles About Male Doms and Female Subs?
I frequently get berated in comments on articles or via email about my lack of inclusivity. Some people feel that …
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Ep 11: Liberating Your Sexual Desire with Rosa Maxwell (A Sex, Love & Relationship Coach)
In this week’s episode of Conversations with a Dom Moineau and I are joined by Rosa Maxwell, a sex, love, …
Ep 10: Who Knows More About Sex?
Chief and Moineau take on Buzzfeed’s sex quiz in a head to head battle in this week’s episode of the …
Total Power Exchange: An Overview of the TPE Kink
Every heard the phrase Total Power Exchange in the context of BDSM and wondered what it meant? Or someone mentioning …
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Ep 9: Chief and Moineau Answer BDSM Questions From Reddit (Conversations with a Dom Podcast)
In this week’s episode of the Conversations with a Dom podcast, Chief and Moineau delve into Reddit to answer questions …
What Being a Dominant REALLY Means
When my partners first told me they were submissive and wanted me to dominate them, I didn’t know what they …
Ep 8: Dating When Kinky and Non-Monogamous (Conversations with a Dom Podcast)
Chief discusses the trials and tribulations of dating when both kinky and non-monogamous. He discusses the best places to meet …
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Ep 7: Chief and Moineau Chat to Seren Sins (A Female Dom)
In this week’s episode of Conversations of a Dom, I chat with Seren Sins, a London based female Dom, and …
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Is Exhibitionism Always Part of a Dom sub Dynamic?
A reader emailed me to ask if one of their hard limits would make it difficult for them to find …
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Ep 6: Chief and Moineau Take a Sexual Temperament Quiz (Conversation with a Dom Podcast)
In this podcast episode, Chief and Moineau discuss the Dual Control Model of sexual response, and take the sexual temperament …
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Conversations with a Dom: Ep 5 – How to Introduce Kink and D/s Power Play Into Your Relationship
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Moineau and I discuss how to introduce kink and D/s (Dominance and …
Ep 4: Tips for Beginner Dominants (Conversations with a Dom Podcast)
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, I discuss tips for those who are new to D/s and want …
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A Reader Asks: Am I a Fake Sub?
A reader wrote to me about her struggles to decide if she is a sub or not. Below is my …
A Short Perspective on Dom/sub Relationships
I recently had a question from a reader who is learning what it means to be a Dom. They wrote …