Why Submission is Essential in My Relationship
The room is dark. I am on my knees by the bed, waiting, head bowed, my breathing sharp and shallow. …
Confessions of a Sub: Sex Club Debut
The Boss grabbed my hand and walked towards the door of The Townhouse. We’d been fantasising about exploring a sex …
Confessions of a Sub: Sex Al Fresco
Having sex outside is exciting: sun on bare skin, a soft breeze turning nipples hard, the possibility of being caught …
The Basics of Pet Play
What is pet play? It is a form of D/s relationship in which the Dominant takes on the role of …
Confessions of a Sub: First Time Scene Nerves
I lifted a corner of the satin blindfold from my eyes and took one last peek around the living room. …
24 Dirty Things to Say to Your Boyfriend During Sex to Make Him More Dominant
Does your boyfriend or husband need a little encouragement to unleash his inner dominant in the bedroom? The 24 dirty …
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The Charmore Society Street Party (Plus 6 Munch Tips)
On Friday evening Moineau and I made our way to the Chardmore Society annual street party in Hoxton, London. It …
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How to Run an Inspection Scene
Atten-SHUN! Today I want to share with you the concept of inspection scenes and how to incorporate them into your …
Experimenting with Higher Protocol Service Dynamics
Moineau looked at me questioningly from her kneeling position on the rug. I realised I hadn’t given her permission to …
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What’s Coming to Kinky Events in 2021?
Editor’s note: Since writing this article both The Community and my rope bondage course mentioned below have launched. I don’t …
So, You’re Interested in Attending a Sex Party…
So you and/or your partner are curious about what happens at a sex party and are tempted to attend one. …
Three Spectacularly Kinky Things I’m Excited About Doing Once The Pandemic is Over
Alright my little Kinksters. I don’t know about you, but coronavirus killed ALL my kinky plans for 2020. Not only …
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Tied to a Chair and Made to Serve
We are still in the middle of the Coronavirus pandemic. Here in London we’re allowed to belong to one ‘support …
29 More Dirty Text Messages to Tease Your Submissive With
It’s the middle of the Coronavirus pandemic and you’re stuck indoors. Maybe you haven’t seen your sub all week and …
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Rug Burn: A Fun Living Room BDSM Scene Idea for Dom Sub Couples (With Photos)
There’s something kinkier about sex outside the bedroom than in it. So when my new shag pile rug arrived for …
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Getting Started with Anal Sex in a Dom Sub Relationship
If you have a desire to incorporate anal sex into your dom sub relationship then I’m here to help. Anal …
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Am I Just Playing at Being a Dom?
Sometimes I feel as though I am playing at being a dom instead of really being one. I don’t wear …
Experimenting with Rope Bondage
If you’ve read my other stuff, you’ll know that I’m not the type of hardcore rigger that gets super turned …
12 Things I’ve Learned After Having Multiple Threesomes (and Moresomes)
I’m by no means a sexual Olympian, but I’ve probably had a few more threesomes than the average person you’d …
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DDLG Rules: A Little List of Rules for Littles
So you’ve got yourself into a Daddy Dom, Little Girl relationship. Congratulations. Now you need some DDLG rules to keep …
Flogging Her (Plus Sleepy Sex)
Her naked bum wiggled in the air naughtily. I couldn’t tell if she was shaking off the lingering stings caused …
Meeting a Third
We were meeting another submissive woman to see if we could incorporate someone else into our kinky play, and perhaps …
9 Creative Submissive Training and Kinky Scene Ideas
Like any relationship, things get stale over time and need a refresh. But coming up with kinky ideas to do …
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34 BDSM Sex Toys I Own and How I Use Them
“Holy shit. That’s a lot of sex toys!” I exclaimed. Seeing them all laid out on the floor of my …
How to Tease Your Sub to an Intense Orgasm
Want to reward your sub for being good with a super intense orgasm? In this guide for a dominant man …
Hunting Down The Ideal Cockwarming Lap Desk
I hadn’t appreciated how many of you filthy reprobates are interesting in cockwarming (sometimes referred to as cock sleeving, although …
Sex Menu: A Beginner’s Guide for Doms and Subs
A sex menu is something people haven’t heard of, and if they have, haven’t got around to completing one. After …
Sofa Plaything (Plus Anal Training)
Moineau had messaged me earlier saying she had accidentally played with herself. I was due to see her that evening, …
51 DDLG Activities For The Little in You
Are you in a DDLG (Daddy Dom, Little Girl) relationship? Or are you a little who wants some cute DDLG …
My D/s Dynamic (The Type of Dominant I Am)
The D/s dynamic I enjoy is unique to me and the type of dominant I am. No two dynamics will …
Night Three at The Best Swingers Club in London
It’s our third trip to this adult swingers club in London in four weeks (Le Boudoir in case you hadn’t …
7 Dominant Commands You Can Give Your Sub By Text Message
Domming someone remotely isn’t easy. Sometimes you just can’t think of any new ideas of what to text them. This …
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Morning Cockwarming
She feels me stirring on a Saturday morning. She’s been awake for a while, waiting. Once she knows I’m semi-conscious, …