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Why submission is essential in my relationship

Why Submission is Essential in My Relationship

June 3, 2022 June 3, 2022 / Leave a Comment

The room is dark. I am on my knees by the bed, waiting, head bowed, my breathing sharp and shallow. …

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Confessions of a sub: Sex club debut

Confessions of a Sub: Sex Club Debut

May 3, 2022 May 3, 2022 / Leave a Comment

The Boss grabbed my hand and walked towards the door of The Townhouse. We’d been fantasising about exploring a sex …

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Confessions of a Sub: Sex Al Fresco

April 15, 2022 April 15, 2022 / Leave a Comment

Having sex outside is exciting: sun on bare skin, a soft breeze turning nipples hard, the possibility of being caught …

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Pet Play Basics in Dominant and submissive relationships

The Basics of Pet Play

April 1, 2022 April 1, 2022 / Leave a Comment

What is pet play? It is a form of D/s relationship in which the Dominant takes on the role of …

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Confessions of a Sub: First Time Scene Nerves

March 29, 2022 March 29, 2022 / 1 Comment

I lifted a corner of the satin blindfold from my eyes and took one last peek around the living room. …

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24 Dirty talk phrases for submissives

24 Dirty Things to Say to Your Boyfriend During Sex to Make Him More Dominant

March 17, 2022 March 17, 2022 / 2 Comments

Does your boyfriend or husband need a little encouragement to unleash his inner dominant in the bedroom? The 24 dirty …

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The Charmore Society Street Party (Plus 6 Munch Tips)

June 6, 2021 October 26, 2021 / 4 Comments

On Friday evening Moineau and I made our way to the Chardmore Society annual street party in Hoxton, London. It …

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How to run an inspection scene

How to Run an Inspection Scene

March 18, 2021 March 18, 2021 / Leave a Comment

Atten-SHUN! Today I want to share with you the concept of inspection scenes and how to incorporate them into your …

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Experimenting with Higher Protocol Service Dynamics

March 13, 2021 March 13, 2021 / 3 Comments

Moineau looked at me questioningly from her kneeling position on the rug. I realised I hadn’t given her permission to …

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What's new at Kinky Events in 2021

What’s Coming to Kinky Events in 2021?

February 3, 2021 March 3, 2021 / Leave a Comment

Editor’s note: Since writing this article both The Community and my rope bondage course mentioned below have launched. I don’t …

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So, You’re Interested in Attending a Sex Party…

January 10, 2021 October 26, 2021 / 9 Comments

So you and/or your partner are curious about what happens at a sex party and are tempted to attend one. …

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Kinky Ideas for 2021

Three Spectacularly Kinky Things I’m Excited About Doing Once The Pandemic is Over

November 25, 2020 February 21, 2021 / 4 Comments

Alright my little Kinksters. I don’t know about you, but coronavirus killed ALL my kinky plans for 2020. Not only …

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Tied to a Chair and Made to Serve

November 17, 2020 October 27, 2021 / 2 Comments

We are still in the middle of the Coronavirus pandemic. Here in London we’re allowed to belong to one ‘support …

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29 dirty text messages to turn your sub on

29 More Dirty Text Messages to Tease Your Submissive With

November 5, 2020 February 27, 2021 / 10 Comments

It’s the middle of the Coronavirus pandemic and you’re stuck indoors. Maybe you haven’t seen your sub all week and …

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Rug Burn: A Fun Living Room BDSM Scene Idea for Dom Sub Couples (With Photos)

October 18, 2020 February 23, 2021 / Leave a Comment

There’s something kinkier about sex outside the bedroom than in it. So when my new shag pile rug arrived for …

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Getting Started with Anal Sex in a Dom Sub Relationship

August 24, 2020 February 11, 2022 / 2 Comments

If you have a desire to incorporate anal sex into your dom sub relationship then I’m here to help. Anal …

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Am I Just Playing at Being a Dom?

July 12, 2020 February 23, 2021 / 6 Comments

Sometimes I feel as though I am playing at being a dom instead of really being one. I don’t wear …

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Experimenting with Rope Bondage

July 11, 2020 October 27, 2021 / Leave a Comment

If you’ve read my other stuff, you’ll know that I’m not the type of hardcore rigger that gets super turned …

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12 Things I’ve Learned After Having Multiple Threesomes (and Moresomes)

July 9, 2020 March 10, 2021 / Leave a Comment

I’m by no means a sexual Olympian, but I’ve probably had a few more threesomes than the average person you’d …

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DDLG Rules: A Little List of Rules for Littles

July 7, 2020 April 20, 2021 / 8 Comments

So you’ve got yourself into a Daddy Dom, Little Girl relationship. Congratulations. Now you need some DDLG rules to keep …

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Flogging Her (Plus Sleepy Sex)

July 6, 2020 October 27, 2021 / 3 Comments

Her naked bum wiggled in the air naughtily. I couldn’t tell if she was shaking off the lingering stings caused …

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Meeting a Third

July 1, 2020 February 21, 2021 / Leave a Comment

We were meeting another submissive woman to see if we could incorporate someone else into our kinky play, and perhaps …

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9 Creative Submissive Training and Kinky Scene Ideas

June 30, 2020 February 23, 2021 / Leave a Comment

Like any relationship, things get stale over time and need a refresh. But coming up with kinky ideas to do …

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34 BDSM Sex Toys I Own and How I Use Them

June 23, 2020 August 25, 2021 / 2 Comments

“Holy shit. That’s a lot of sex toys!” I exclaimed. Seeing them all laid out on the floor of my …

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How to Tease Your Sub to an Intense Orgasm

June 18, 2020 August 12, 2021 / 2 Comments

Want to reward your sub for being good with a super intense orgasm? In this guide for a dominant man …

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Hunting Down The Ideal Cockwarming Lap Desk

June 2, 2020 February 21, 2021 / 1 Comment

I hadn’t appreciated how many of you filthy reprobates are interesting in cockwarming (sometimes referred to as cock sleeving, although …

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A beginners guide to sex menus in BDSM relationships

Sex Menu: A Beginner’s Guide for Doms and Subs

March 16, 2020 March 10, 2021 / 4 Comments

A sex menu is something people haven’t heard of, and if they have, haven’t got around to completing one. After …

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Sofa Plaything (Plus Anal Training)

March 5, 2020 April 19, 2022 / 8 Comments

Moineau had messaged me earlier saying she had accidentally played with herself. I was due to see her that evening, …

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51 DDLG Activities For The Little in You

March 5, 2020 May 8, 2021 / 5 Comments

Are you in a DDLG (Daddy Dom, Little Girl) relationship? Or are you a little who wants some cute DDLG …

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My D/s Dynamic (The Type of Dominant I Am)

February 27, 2020 March 31, 2021 / 2 Comments

The D/s dynamic I enjoy is unique to me and the type of dominant I am. No two dynamics will …

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Night Three at The Best Swingers Club in London

February 24, 2020 October 26, 2021 / 1 Comment

It’s our third trip to this adult swingers club in London in four weeks (Le Boudoir in case you hadn’t …

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7 Dominant Commands You Can Give Your Sub By Text Message

February 22, 2020 March 10, 2021 / 19 Comments

Domming someone remotely isn’t easy. Sometimes you just can’t think of any new ideas of what to text them. This …

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Morning Cockwarming

February 21, 2020 February 23, 2021 / 3 Comments

She feels me stirring on a Saturday morning. She’s been awake for a while, waiting. Once she knows I’m semi-conscious, …

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