How do I make my husband more confident and aggressive?
A reader sent in this email: My husband and I have recently discovered BDSM. It happened very suddenly and the …
How do I make my husband more confident and aggressive? Read More »
A reader sent in this email: My husband and I have recently discovered BDSM. It happened very suddenly and the …
How do I make my husband more confident and aggressive? Read More »
Hello, Chief. I have been thinking a lot about being in a dominant/sub relationship. It is something that I have …
A Rigger is a BDSM term used to describe someone who enjoys restraining their partner with rope bondage (sometimes referred …
A reader emailed me to ask if I’d written anything about aftercare. Below is her email and my response. I’m …
When dating as a submissive it is important to look out for Fake Doms. In this guide I’ll explain what …
7 Ways to Spot a Fake Dom (and Why You Should Avoid Them) Read More »
Subspace is the feeling of being zoned out, floaty, melty, and spaced out felt by the Submissive after an intense …
A reader writes: So far, the “adventure” into the D/S lifestyle has been very good to us. But, I am …
How Do I Let My Dom Know I Want Tender, Sensual, and Sensitive Too? Read More »
The term Rope Bunny is used to describe a person who enjoys being tied up with rope. This may be …
Great question. If you want to make your boyfriend more dominant in bed then it starts with communication. Have you …
Finding a dominant partner is probably going to be your most difficult challenge. It’s difficult enough to find someone compatible …
Absolutely not. Being a submissive does not mean you have to do everything your dominant tells you to. That would …
My Dominant Asked Me to Do Something But I Don’t Want to. Am I a Bad Sub? Read More »
What does normal even mean? Yes, chances are you are relatively normal, despite a kink you might have which isn’t …
What is a sub? It’s short for submissive and describes a person (male or female) who exhibits submissive personality traits …
What is the meaning of Dom and sub? Dom stands for Dominant and sub for submissive. The phrase Dom and …
I get asked why a woman would want to be a submissive in a dominant submissive relationship often. Whenever I …
A day collar is a collar designed to be worn by a sub during the day, outside of the house, …
What does it mean when you see a woman wearing a choker around their neck? Does it automatically mean they …
When a Dom (dominant) collars a sub (submissive) it is a sign that the sub belongs to the Dom in …