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The things beginner Doms and subs ask me via email. Feel free to submit your own question on the contact page.

What is impact play?

What is impact play? (and should you try it…)

August 21, 2023 / Leave a Comment

Impact play is a form of BDSM that involves consensual striking or hitting of the body for pleasure. It can …

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Why do men enjoy anal sex?

Why do guys like anal sex so much?

February 20, 2022 / 4 Comments

First up, the obligatory “not all guys” is needed. Some guys don’t enjoy anal sex, and some do. Some women …

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Do I disagree with female Dominants?

Why Are Many of My Articles About Male Doms and Female Subs?

February 6, 2022 / 1 Comment

I frequently get berated in comments on articles or via email about my lack of inclusivity. Some people feel that …

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Do I disagree with female Dominants?

Is Exhibitionism Always Part of a Dom sub Dynamic?

November 8, 2021 / Leave a Comment

A reader emailed me to ask if one of their hard limits would make it difficult for them to find …

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Do I disagree with female Dominants?

A Reader Asks: Am I a Fake Sub?

September 2, 2021 / 4 Comments

A reader wrote to me about her struggles to decide if she is a sub or not. Below is my …

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Is a sub always a sub?

Can a Submissive be Dominant in Everyday Life?

July 10, 2021 / 3 Comments

A reader asks: First, you ask if it is a thing for someone to be submissive in the bedroom but …

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How to make him more aggressive

How do I make my husband more confident and aggressive?

March 28, 2021 / Leave a Comment

A reader sent in this email: My husband and I have recently discovered BDSM. It happened very suddenly and the …

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How to find a great dominant partner

How Do I Find a Good Dom?

March 15, 2021 / 10 Comments

Hello, Chief. I have been thinking a lot about being in a dominant/sub relationship. It is something that I have …

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What is a Rigger?

What is a Rigger in BDSM?

March 9, 2021 / Leave a Comment

A Rigger is a BDSM term used to describe someone who enjoys restraining their partner with rope bondage (sometimes referred …

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What about aftercare

What About Aftercare?

March 8, 2021 / 7 Comments

A reader emailed me to ask if I’d written anything about aftercare. Below is her email and my response. I’m …

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What is subspace?

What is Subspace?

February 19, 2021 / Leave a Comment

Subspace is the feeling of being zoned out, floaty, melty, and spaced out felt by the Submissive after an intense …

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Can a Dom be sensitive and tender too?

How Do I Let My Dom Know I Want Tender, Sensual, and Sensitive Too?

December 5, 2020 / Leave a Comment

A reader writes: So far, the “adventure” into the D/S lifestyle has been very good to us. But, I am …

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what is a rope bunny?

What is a Rope Bunny?

October 31, 2020 / Leave a Comment

The term Rope Bunny is used to describe a person who enjoys being tied up with rope. This may be …

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be more dominant

How Do I Get My Boyfriend To Be More Dominant?

July 17, 2020 / Leave a Comment

Great question. If you want to make your boyfriend more dominant in bed then it starts with communication. Have you …

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How Do I Find A Dominant Partner?

July 16, 2020 / 4 Comments

Finding a dominant partner is probably going to be your most difficult challenge. It’s difficult enough to find someone compatible …

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Do I disagree with female Dominants?

My Dominant Asked Me to Do Something But I Don’t Want to. Am I a Bad Sub?

July 15, 2020 / 10 Comments

Absolutely not. Being a submissive does not mean you have to do everything your dominant tells you to. That would …

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Do I disagree with female Dominants?

I Have Kink X. Am I normal?

July 14, 2020 / Leave a Comment

What does normal even mean? Yes, chances are you are relatively normal, despite a kink you might have which isn’t …

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what is a sub

What is a sub? And what types of sub exist?

July 5, 2020 / 13 Comments

What is a sub? It’s short for submissive and describes a person (male or female) who exhibits submissive personality traits …

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Do I disagree with female Dominants?

What does Dom and sub mean?

July 1, 2020 / Leave a Comment

What is the meaning of Dom and sub? Dom stands for Dominant and sub for submissive. The phrase Dom and …

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Why be a submissive woman in a dom sub relationship?

Why Would a Woman Want to Be a Submissive?

February 22, 2020 / 24 Comments

I get asked why a woman would want to be a submissive in a dominant submissive relationship often. Whenever I …

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A lace choker for a BDSM day collar

What is a Day Collar?

February 6, 2020 / 2 Comments

A day collar is a collar designed to be worn by a sub during the day, outside of the house, …

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What does a choker mean on a girl?

What Does a Choker Mean on a Girl?

February 6, 2020 / 1 Comment

What does it mean when you see a woman wearing a choker around their neck? Does it automatically mean they …

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Submissive wearing a BDSM collar in a collaring ceremony

Collared Sexually: What does it mean when a Dom collars a sub?

February 5, 2020 / 3 Comments

Being collared sexually is when a Dom (dominant) collars a sub (submissive) to signal that the sub belongs to the …

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