Why do guys like anal sex so much?
First up, the obligatory “not all guys” is needed. Some guys don’t enjoy anal sex, and some do. Some women […]
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10 Quick Tips For A Successful First Time Dominating A Submissive
Nervous about dominating a submissive for the first time? Then you’ve come to the right place. These ten tips will
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A Five Minute Core Desires Exercise Which Leads to Hotter Sex
I want to share one exercise you can use to have kinkier fun. Don’t dismiss it due to it’s simplicity.
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Ep 12: Answering BDSM Questions From Reddit
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom (a BDSM podcast for beginners) I browse through the BDSM subreddit for
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Why Are Many of My Articles About Male Doms and Female Subs?
I frequently get berated in comments on articles or via email about my lack of inclusivity. Some people feel that
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Ep 11: Liberating Your Sexual Desire with Rosa Maxwell (A Sex, Love & Relationship Coach)
In this week’s episode of Conversations with a Dom Moineau and I are joined by Rosa Maxwell, a sex, love,
Ep 10: Who Knows More About Sex?
Chief and Moineau take on Buzzfeed’s sex quiz in a head to head battle in this week’s episode of the
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Total Power Exchange: An Overview of the TPE Kink
Every heard the phrase Total Power Exchange in the context of BDSM and wondered what it meant? Or someone mentioning
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Ep 9: Chief and Moineau Answer BDSM Questions From Reddit (Conversations with a Dom Podcast)
In this week’s episode of the Conversations with a Dom podcast, Chief and Moineau delve into Reddit to answer questions
What Being a Dominant REALLY Means
When my partners first told me they were submissive and wanted me to dominate them, I didn’t know what they
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Ep 8: Dating When Kinky and Non-Monogamous (Conversations with a Dom Podcast)
Chief discusses the trials and tribulations of dating when both kinky and non-monogamous. He discusses the best places to meet
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Ep 7: Chief and Moineau Chat to Seren Sins (A Female Dom)
In this week’s episode of Conversations of a Dom, I chat with Seren Sins, a London based female Dom, and
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Is Exhibitionism Always Part of a Dom sub Dynamic?
A reader emailed me to ask if one of their hard limits would make it difficult for them to find
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Ep 6: Chief and Moineau Take a Sexual Temperament Quiz (Conversation with a Dom Podcast)
In this podcast episode, Chief and Moineau discuss the Dual Control Model of sexual response, and take the sexual temperament
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Conversations with a Dom: Ep 5 – How to Introduce Kink and D/s Power Play Into Your Relationship
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Moineau and I discuss how to introduce kink and D/s (Dominance and
Ep 4: Tips for Beginner Dominants (Conversations with a Dom Podcast)
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, I discuss tips for those who are new to D/s and want
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A Reader Asks: Am I a Fake Sub?
A reader wrote to me about her struggles to decide if she is a sub or not. Below is my
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A Short Perspective on Dom/sub Relationships
I recently had a question from a reader who is learning what it means to be a Dom. They wrote
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I Bought a Secret Spanking Bench (Unboxing and Build Photos)
I’ve discussed my desire to host kinky parties in previous articles. Now I’ve moved home I have the luxury of
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The Fox Den: Victoriana Party Review
Victoriana by The Fox Den was the first kinky play party I attended after the lockdown ended here in London.
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Can a Submissive be Dominant in Everyday Life?
A reader asks: First, you ask if it is a thing for someone to be submissive in the bedroom but
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The Charmore Society Street Party (Plus 6 Munch Tips)
On Friday evening Moineau and I made our way to the Chardmore Society annual street party in Hoxton, London. It
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How do I make my husband more confident and aggressive?
A reader sent in this email: My husband and I have recently discovered BDSM. It happened very suddenly and the
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Conversations with a Dom: Episode 3 – Sex Parties
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom Jessica from Pleasure Island Parties and I discuss sex parties. Click play below to listen
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How to Run an Inspection Scene
Atten-SHUN! Today I want to share with you the concept of inspection scenes and how to incorporate them into your
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How Do I Find a Good Dom?
Hello, Chief. I have been thinking a lot about being in a dominant/sub relationship. It is something that I have
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Experimenting with Higher Protocol Service Dynamics
Moineau looked at me questioningly from her kneeling position on the rug. I realised I hadn’t given her permission to
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Conversations with a Dom: Episode 1 – Subspace
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom Moineau and I discuss subspace. We cover: What subspace feels like? [00:01:07]
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Conversations with a Dom: Episode 2 – Reader Questions
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom I answer questions from readers, including: Do Doms really care about/love their
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What is a Rigger in BDSM?
A Rigger is a BDSM term used to describe someone who enjoys restraining their partner with rope bondage (sometimes referred
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What About Aftercare?
A reader emailed me to ask if I’d written anything about aftercare. Below is her email and my response. I’m
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7 Ways to Spot a Fake Dom (and Why You Should Avoid Them)
When dating as a submissive it is important to look out for Fake Doms. In this guide I’ll explain what
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Better Sex With Expert Communication
If there’s one tip I could give anyone in a relationship it would be to communicate more. I’m sure you’ve
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