Chief and Moineau revisit their Sex Menus from March 2020, and chat through what’s changed and what hasn’t. This episode highlights why a Sex Menu is such a fantastic tool for open communication in relationships.
They showcase how such candid discussions can significantly enhance intimacy and satisfaction, foster a deeper understanding between partners, encourage exploration, and ultimately improve your sex life.
Whether you’re deeply embedded in the BDSM community or just curious about enhancing communication and desire in your relationship, this episode provides a real-world example of how embracing change and being open about your sexual wants can lead to more fulfilling experiences.
Key timestamps
- 00:00:00: Introduction to the concept of the sex menu for enhancing BDSM exploration and communication between partners.
- 00:01:49: Reflecting on changes in desires over time, highlighting the evolving nature of kinks and preferences.
- 00:02:21: A brief overview of the extensive list of kinks and the practical approach to discussing them.
- 00:03:09: Discussion on affectionate acts within BDSM, such as aftercare and cuddles.
- 00:04:39: Exploration of anal play preferences, emphasizing the significance of comfort and consent.
- 00:13:28: Insights into the role of anal play in their BDSM activities and the process of anal training.
- 00:16:29: The impact of clothing and appearance in BDSM scenes, with personal anecdotes.
- 00:18:46: Examination of restraint and sensory deprivation techniques, such as blindfolds and gags.
- 00:20:27: Delving into breast play, exploring the balance between pleasure and discomfort.
- 00:22:43: Command and domination play, discussing the nuances of power exchange and submission.
- 00:28:42: Other forms of play, including remote activities, fluid dynamics, and the use of BDSM furniture.
- 00:33:02: The significance of orgasms in their dynamic, exploring control and denial.
- 00:36:20: Engaging in pornography and role play, showcasing the diversity of their sexual explorations.
- 00:39:53: Addressing the aspect of pain within their BDSM activities, highlighting preferences and limits.
- 00:42:50: The role of third parties in their dynamic, including discussions on cuckold scenarios and group sex.
