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Roles & Responsibilities

What does a dom sub dynamic look like? Is it sustainable in a relationship?

D/s is all about having a power dynamic where one person deliberately chooses to be lower status than their parter and submit to them. In return, their Dom keeps them safe and makes decisions for them.

What being a Dom really means

What Being a Dominant REALLY Means

November 22, 2021 November 22, 2021 / 14 Comments

When my partners first told me they were submissive and wanted me to dominate them, I didn’t know what they …

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Experimenting with Higher Protocol Service Dynamics

March 13, 2021 March 13, 2021 / 3 Comments

Moineau looked at me questioningly from her kneeling position on the rug. I realised I hadn’t given her permission to …

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How to spot a fake dom

7 Ways to Spot a Fake Dom (and Why You Should Avoid Them)

March 7, 2021 March 10, 2021 / 26 Comments

When dating as a submissive it is important to look out for Fake Doms. In this guide I’ll explain what …

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what being a sub means to readers

I Asked My Readers What Being a Submissive Means To Them. Here’s What They Said

January 14, 2021 March 10, 2021 / Leave a Comment

I love talking to other dominants and submissives about their experiences of D/s relationships. Be it beginners just starting out …

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An Example of How I Structure My BDSM Scenes

January 13, 2021 March 3, 2021 / 6 Comments

Last night I had a great session with my sub. It had been a while since we’d seen each other …

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Beginners guide to rope bondage for dom sub couples

Rope Bondage: How to Restrain Someone with Rope For Beginners

December 28, 2020 November 24, 2021 / Leave a Comment

In this rope bondage tutorial for beginners you’ll learn the exactly what you need to know about Shibari (Japanese bondage), …

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5 Basic Mistakes Beginner Dominants Make (and What to Do Instead)

October 20, 2020 March 6, 2021 / Leave a Comment

When I began my journey towards being a dom, I didn’t really know how to judge if I was doing …

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The Question All Beginner Dominants Should Ask Themselves

July 26, 2020 February 27, 2021 / Leave a Comment

The one question a beginner dominant should ask themselves is, why am I doing this? If you are a dominant …

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How to be Submissive in a Relationship (8 Practical Steps)

July 8, 2020 March 10, 2021 / Leave a Comment

So you want to be submissive in a relationship. I’m assuming this is as opposed to being submissive outside of …

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DDLG Rules: A Little List of Rules for Littles

July 7, 2020 April 20, 2021 / 8 Comments

So you’ve got yourself into a Daddy Dom, Little Girl relationship. Congratulations. Now you need some DDLG rules to keep …

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What is a sub? And what types of sub exist?

July 5, 2020 March 17, 2021 / 8 Comments

What is a sub? It’s short for submissive and describes a person (male or female) who exhibits submissive personality traits …

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9 Responsibilities of a Dominant in a Dom Sub Relationship

July 4, 2020 May 20, 2021 / 6 Comments

The primary responsibilities of a dominant are to assist with creating a consensual power dynamic during sex, and perhaps also …

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Do I disagree with female Dominants?

What does Dom and sub mean?

July 1, 2020 November 29, 2021 / Leave a Comment

What is the meaning of Dom and sub? Dom stands for Dominant and sub for submissive. The phrase Dom and …

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Make your boyfriend more dominant

5 Ways to Make Your Boyfriend More Dominant in Bed

June 25, 2020 March 13, 2021 / 8 Comments

He’s timid in bed but you want the good stuff. How do you make your boyfriend more dominant in the …

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A beginners guide to sex menus in BDSM relationships

Sex Menu: A Beginner’s Guide for Doms and Subs

March 16, 2020 March 10, 2021 / 4 Comments

A sex menu is something people haven’t heard of, and if they have, haven’t got around to completing one. After …

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How to be a dom. The ultimate guide

How to Be a Dom: A Beginner’s Guide

March 14, 2020 November 25, 2021 / 24 Comments

If you have recently discovered the world of BDSM and kink, and want to know how to be a dom …

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51 DDLG Activities For The Little in You

March 5, 2020 May 8, 2021 / 5 Comments

Are you in a DDLG (Daddy Dom, Little Girl) relationship? Or are you a little who wants some cute DDLG …

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Submissive Punishments: How to Punish Your sub Like a Pro Dom

March 3, 2020 May 4, 2021 / 24 Comments

Submissive punishments are a tenant of BDSM. But what makes a good punishment? When does a sub deserve to be …

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Dom sub Relationships: The Ultimate Guide for Beginners

March 1, 2020 April 1, 2021 / 13 Comments

I’ve collated some of the more popular questions about Dom sub relationships below. Whilst reading, remember that the stereotypical image …

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9 Tips for the Beginner Dominant

February 28, 2020 October 20, 2021 / 7 Comments

So you’re a beginner dominant and want to know what the hell to do. Starting out can be confusing and …

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My D/s Dynamic (The Type of Dominant I Am)

February 27, 2020 March 31, 2021 / 2 Comments

The D/s dynamic I enjoy is unique to me and the type of dominant I am. No two dynamics will …

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What Does Being a Dom Mean to Me?

February 21, 2020 November 25, 2021 / 25 Comments

When people hear me say I am a Dom they are either intrigued or horrified.  Those who are horrified I …

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How to be a good submissive slave

How to Be a Good Submissive Slave

February 17, 2020 March 2, 2021 / 4 Comments

Interested in how to be a better submissive slave? Want a Master of your own (who also owns you)? If …

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Slave Training: A Master’s Complete Guide to Training His Submissive

February 14, 2020 June 22, 2022 / 6 Comments

So you want to know everything there is to know about BDSM slave training… You’ve come to the right place, …

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