What Being a Dominant REALLY Means
When my partners first told me they were submissive and wanted me to dominate them, I didn’t know what they …
Experimenting with Higher Protocol Service Dynamics
Moineau looked at me questioningly from her kneeling position on the rug. I realised I hadn’t given her permission to …
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7 Ways to Spot a Fake Dom (and Why You Should Avoid Them)
When dating as a submissive it is important to look out for Fake Doms. In this guide I’ll explain what …
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I Asked My Readers What Being a Submissive Means To Them. Here’s What They Said
I love talking to other dominants and submissives about their experiences of D/s relationships. Be it beginners just starting out …
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An Example of How I Structure My BDSM Scenes
Last night I had a great session with my sub. It had been a while since we’d seen each other …
Rope Bondage: How to Restrain Someone with Rope For Beginners
In this rope bondage tutorial for beginners you’ll learn the exactly what you need to know about Shibari (Japanese bondage), …
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5 Basic Mistakes Beginner Dominants Make (and What to Do Instead)
When I began my journey towards being a dom, I didn’t really know how to judge if I was doing …
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The Question All Beginner Dominants Should Ask Themselves
The one question a beginner dominant should ask themselves is, why am I doing this? If you are a dominant …
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How to be Submissive in a Relationship (8 Practical Steps)
So you want to be submissive in a relationship. I’m assuming this is as opposed to being submissive outside of …
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DDLG Rules: A Little List of Rules for Littles
So you’ve got yourself into a Daddy Dom, Little Girl relationship. Congratulations. Now you need some DDLG rules to keep …
What is a sub? And what types of sub exist?
What is a sub? It’s short for submissive and describes a person (male or female) who exhibits submissive personality traits …
9 Responsibilities of a Dominant in a Dom Sub Relationship
The primary responsibilities of a dominant are to assist with creating a consensual power dynamic during sex, and perhaps also …
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What does Dom and sub mean?
What is the meaning of Dom and sub? Dom stands for Dominant and sub for submissive. The phrase Dom and …
5 Ways to Make Your Boyfriend More Dominant in Bed
He’s timid in bed but you want the good stuff. How do you make your boyfriend more dominant in the …
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Sex Menu: A Beginner’s Guide for Doms and Subs
A sex menu is something people haven’t heard of, and if they have, haven’t got around to completing one. After …
How to Be a Dom: A Beginner’s Guide
If you have recently discovered the world of BDSM and kink, and want to know how to be a dom …
51 DDLG Activities For The Little in You
Are you in a DDLG (Daddy Dom, Little Girl) relationship? Or are you a little who wants some cute DDLG …
Submissive Punishments: How to Punish Your sub Like a Pro Dom
Submissive punishments are a tenant of BDSM. But what makes a good punishment? When does a sub deserve to be …
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Dom sub Relationships: The Ultimate Guide for Beginners
I’ve collated some of the more popular questions about Dom sub relationships below. Whilst reading, remember that the stereotypical image …
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9 Tips for the Beginner Dominant
So you’re a beginner dominant and want to know what the hell to do. Starting out can be confusing and …
My D/s Dynamic (The Type of Dominant I Am)
The D/s dynamic I enjoy is unique to me and the type of dominant I am. No two dynamics will …
What Does Being a Dom Mean to Me?
When people hear me say I am a Dom they are either intrigued or horrified. Those who are horrified I …
How to Be a Good Submissive Slave
Interested in how to be a better submissive slave? Want a Master of your own (who also owns you)? If …
Slave Training: A Master’s Complete Guide to Training His Submissive
So you want to know everything there is to know about BDSM slave training… You’ve come to the right place, …
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