In this episode Chief clears up misconceptions about the BDSM and Dom/sub lifestyle. With a wealth of experience and knowledge, Chief discusses and debunks eight prevalent myths. Whether you’re new to the scene or looking for clarity on certain aspects of BDSM, this episode is packed with insights, advice, and a call for open-mindedness and consent above all.
Join us as we explore the true nature of power play and empower you with the knowledge to engage in healthy, consensual BDSM dynamics.
Key timestamps
00:00:00 – Introduction
00:01:15 – Myth 1: Gender Roles in BDSM
00:05:00 – Myth 2: The Absolute Power of the Dom
00:15:30 – Myth 3: Misconceptions of Abuse in DS Relationships
00:22:45 – Myth 4: The 24/7 DS Dynamic
00:30:00 – Myth 5: Trauma and Its Role in Kink
00:36:20 – Myth 6: The Intersection of Kink and Monogamy
00:41:55 – Myth 7: The Necessity of Pain in DS Dynamics
00:49:10 – Myth 8: Submissiveness in Everyday Life
00:55:45 – Closing: How to Further Explore BDSM Safely
Resources mentioned
- Kinkyevents.co.uk for courses, books, guides and free resources
- The Art of Submission course
- Sensational Scenes book for advancing DS scenes
- Rope bondage course
