The boot worship kink
Boot worship is a BDSM kink or fetish where individuals derive sexual arousal and enjoyment from boots. It is one …
Boot worship is a BDSM kink or fetish where individuals derive sexual arousal and enjoyment from boots. It is one …
Key takeaways I’ll admit that I hadn’t heard the term Pleasure Dom until fairly recently. Typically when I hear the …
DDlg stands for Daddy Dom/little girl. It’s a form of BDSM roleplay where two adults consent to talking on roles …
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Topping from the bottom is when a person who has agreed to relinquish power in a power-play dynamic attempts to …
Impact play is a form of BDSM that involves consensual striking or hitting of the body for pleasure. It can …
Powerplay in Dom/sub relationships is a fundamental aspect of BDSM dynamics. It involves the exchange of power and control between …
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The world of dominance and submission, or BDSM, can be an exciting and fulfilling place for those who are interested …
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“I don’t know what to do”. “I can’t be a Dom until I’ve learned everything.” “How do I start when …
Just what is a BDSM relationship? What does it involve? What sort of people participate? You’ve got so many questions, …
There’s one question I’ve been asked countless times over the years. How do I be a good submissive for my …
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If you are new to BDSM you might not be familiar with aftercare. Aftercare refers to the soothing care provided …
The world of kink and BDSM is massive. If you are new this can be both daunting and exciting. There …
You and your Dominant have been texting up a storm. They talk about tying you up to the bedposts and …
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Often in a BDSM dynamic, we can get focused on care coming from an external place. A Daddy-Dom caring for …
Not long ago during a Sunday evening in lockdown my wife asked me a question. “When was it that you …
You know how your body reacts to just the thought of being dominated by a strong, powerful man? It begins …
So you think you want to be a submissive, and you have found someone to be your Dominant. Perhaps the …
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Ah, the bratty submissive… The brat submissive is one of those I both love and hate as a Dom. They …
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To the completely untrained eye, it can appear as though us submissives crave violence. It can definitely seem that way …
If you are currently in a D/s relationship, at this point you and your partner have taken the time to …
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I was immediately sceptical when I heard the popular streaming service had released a new BDSM film. Without throwing shade …
Nervous about dominating a submissive for the first time? Then you’ve come to the right place. These ten tips will …
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I want to share one exercise you can use to have kinkier fun. Don’t dismiss it due to it’s simplicity. …
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Every heard the phrase Total Power Exchange in the context of BDSM and wondered what it meant? Or someone mentioning …
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When my partners first told me they were submissive and wanted me to dominate them, I didn’t know what they …
I recently had a question from a reader who is learning what it means to be a Dom. They wrote …
As a beginner Dominant or Submissive you don’t have to make your BDSM scenes as intense as what is shown …
I love a good massage. Not in a sexual way. But in a “wow this feels incredibly relaxing” kind of …
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As I thought back to all the BDSM scenes I’d been involved in, I realised there were five core themes …
Subspace is the feeling of being zoned out, floaty, melty, and spaced out felt by the Submissive after an intense …
I love talking to other dominants and submissives about their experiences of D/s relationships. Be it beginners just starting out …
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Last night I had a great session with my sub. It had been a while since we’d seen each other …
Being an INTJ I love theory. I would prefer to spend an entire day reading about the psychology of arousal …
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