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BDSM film love and leashes is available on Netflix

Love and Leashes: 11 Quotes from Netflix’s New Korean BDSM Film (Reviewed by a Real Submissive)

March 19, 2022 March 19, 2022 / Leave a Comment

I was immediately sceptical when I heard the popular streaming service had released a new BDSM film. Without throwing shade …

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Article on Tips for dominating a submissive for the first time

10 Quick Tips For A Successful First Time Dominating A Submissive

February 14, 2022 February 14, 2022 / Leave a Comment

Nervous about dominating a submissive for the first time? Then you’ve come to the right place. These ten tips will …

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Improve your sex life by knowing your core desires

A Five Minute Core Desires Exercise Which Leads to Hotter Sex

February 11, 2022 February 11, 2022 / 5 Comments

I want to share one exercise you can use to have kinkier fun. Don’t dismiss it due to it’s simplicity. …

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What being a Dom really means

What Being a Dominant REALLY Means

November 22, 2021 November 22, 2021 / 11 Comments

When my partners first told me they were submissive and wanted me to dominate them, I didn’t know what they …

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Do I disagree with female Dominants?

A Short Perspective on Dom/sub Relationships

September 1, 2021 September 1, 2021 / 1 Comment

I recently had a question from a reader who is learning what it means to be a Dom. They wrote …

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extreme BDSM isn't always good

Not Every BDSM Scene Has to Be Extreme

February 23, 2021 February 23, 2021 / Leave a Comment

As a beginner Dominant or Submissive you don’t have to make your BDSM scenes as intense as what is shown …

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The power of repetition in BDSM for subspace

The Power of Repetition for Inducing a Submissive Mindset

February 21, 2021 February 21, 2021 / 1 Comment

I love a good massage.  Not in a sexual way.  But in a “wow this feels incredibly relaxing” kind of …

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Learn the 5 big themes of BDSM scenes

Better BDSM Scenes with the 5 Big Themes

February 20, 2021 April 15, 2022 / 3 Comments

As I thought back to all the BDSM scenes I’d been involved in, I realised there were five core themes …

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What is subspace?

What is Subspace?

February 19, 2021 March 10, 2021 / Leave a Comment

Subspace is the feeling of being zoned out, floaty, melty, and spaced out felt by the Submissive after an intense …

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what being a sub means to readers

I Asked My Readers What Being a Submissive Means To Them. Here’s What They Said

January 14, 2021 March 10, 2021 / Leave a Comment

I love talking to other dominants and submissives about their experiences of D/s relationships. Be it beginners just starting out …

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An Example of How I Structure My BDSM Scenes

January 13, 2021 March 3, 2021 / 5 Comments

Last night I had a great session with my sub. It had been a while since we’d seen each other …

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5 Books Every Dominant Should Read for Healthier D/s Relationships

December 30, 2020 February 27, 2021 / 5 Comments

Being an INTJ I love theory. I would prefer to spend an entire day reading about the psychology of arousal …

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Do I disagree with female Dominants?

What does Dom and sub mean?

July 1, 2020 November 29, 2021 / Leave a Comment

What is the meaning of Dom and sub? Dom stands for Dominant and sub for submissive. The phrase Dom and …

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BDSM Contracts: A Beginner’s Guide

March 4, 2020 March 30, 2021 / Leave a Comment

A BDSM contract is a document detailing the expectations two people in a dominant and submissive relationship have of each …

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Why be a submissive woman in a dom sub relationship?

Why Would a Woman Want to Be a Submissive?

February 22, 2020 March 31, 2021 / 6 Comments

I get asked why a woman would want to be a submissive in a dominant submissive relationship often. Whenever I …

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when a dom collars a sub

What Does it Mean When a Dom Collars a Sub?

February 5, 2020 February 27, 2021 / 2 Comments

When a Dom (dominant) collars a sub (submissive) it is a sign that the sub belongs to the Dom in …

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