15 BDSM Training Ideas and Exercises
I was disappointed at the quality of BDSM training I saw online. I wanted more in-depth information. I wanted it […]
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8 BDSM Sex Positions to Try Today (For the Curious and Adventurous)
Ready to inject a kinky spark into your relationship? Whether you’re just curious about BDSM or already dipping your toes
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Kinky and curious? 6 beginner-friendly BDSM ideas to try tonight!
If you’re curious about trying BDSM in the bedroom but aren’t sure where to start, you’re in the right place.
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From Bland Hookups to 6-Hour BDSM Session: Woman Ditches Vanilla Dating for Dominant Bliss
The following is a submission by a female reader based on London who emailed to share her first experience of
4 exciting flavours of power play to explore as a BDSM beginner (with 50+ examples)
Welcome to the world of power play, where the thrill of dominance and submission can bring an electrifying edge to
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11 reflections on being a BDSM educator in 2023: Looking, learning, and a lot of work
Hey, kinksters. 2023 has been a year filled with ups, downs, and a few sideways glances. I wanted to write
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Public BDSM: 5 ways to get kinky in public without anyone knowing
The world of BDSM and public kink is an exhilarating and often controversial realm that is continually subject to debate
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Confessions of a Sub: Teasing and Begging
The Boss gently slipped the blindfold over my eyes and told me to lie back on the bed. He carefully
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Confessions of a Sub: When Scenes Go Wrong
The Boss looked down at me on my knees in front of him. He stood confidently in the summer sun,
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Why Submission is Essential in My Relationship
The room is dark. I am on my knees by the bed, waiting, head bowed, my breathing sharp and shallow.
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Confessions of a Sub: Sex Club Debut
The Boss grabbed my hand and walked towards the door of The Townhouse. We’d been fantasising about exploring a sex
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Confessions of a Sub: Sex Al Fresco
Having sex outside is exciting: sun on bare skin, a soft breeze turning nipples hard, the possibility of being caught
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The Basics of Pet Play
What is pet play? It is a form of D/s relationship in which the Dominant takes on the role of
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Confessions of a Sub: First Time Scene Nerves
I lifted a corner of the satin blindfold from my eyes and took one last peek around the living room.
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The Charmore Society Street Party (Plus 6 Munch Tips)
On Friday evening Moineau and I made our way to the Chardmore Society annual street party in Hoxton, London. It
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How to Run an Inspection Scene
Atten-SHUN! Today I want to share with you the concept of inspection scenes and how to incorporate them into your
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Experimenting with Higher Protocol Service Dynamics
Moineau looked at me questioningly from her kneeling position on the rug. I realised I hadn’t given her permission to
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What’s Coming to Kinky Events in 2021?
Editor’s note: Since writing this article both The Community and my rope bondage course mentioned below have launched. I don’t
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So, You’re Interested in Attending a Sex Party…
So you and/or your partner are curious about what happens at a sex party and are tempted to attend one.
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Three Spectacularly Kinky Things I’m Excited About Doing Once The Pandemic is Over
Alright my little Kinksters. I don’t know about you, but coronavirus killed ALL my kinky plans for 2020. Not only
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Tied to a Chair and Made to Serve
We are still in the middle of the Coronavirus pandemic. Here in London we’re allowed to belong to one ‘support
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29 More Dirty Text Messages to Tease Your Submissive With
It’s the middle of the Coronavirus pandemic and you’re stuck indoors. Maybe you haven’t seen your sub all week and
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Rug Burn: A Fun Living Room BDSM Scene Idea for Dom Sub Couples (With Photos)
There’s something kinkier about sex outside the bedroom than in it. So when my new shag pile rug arrived for
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Getting Started with Anal Sex in a Dom Sub Relationship
If you have a desire to incorporate anal sex into your dom sub relationship then I’m here to help. Anal
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Am I Just Playing at Being a Dom?
Sometimes I feel as though I am playing at being a dom instead of really being one. I don’t wear
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Experimenting with Rope Bondage
If you’ve read my other stuff, you’ll know that I’m not the type of hardcore rigger that gets super turned
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12 Things I’ve Learned After Having Multiple Threesomes (and Moresomes)
I’m by no means a sexual Olympian, but I’ve probably had a few more threesomes than the average person you’d
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DDLG Rules: A Little List of Rules for Littles
So you’ve got yourself into a Daddy Dom, Little Girl relationship. Congratulations. Now you need some DDLG rules to keep
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Flogging Her (Plus Sleepy Sex)
Her naked bum wiggled in the air naughtily. I couldn’t tell if she was shaking off the lingering stings caused
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Meeting a Third
We were meeting another submissive woman to see if we could incorporate someone else into our kinky play, and perhaps
9 Creative Submissive Training and Kinky Scene Ideas
Like any relationship, things get stale over time and need a refresh. But coming up with kinky ideas to do
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34 BDSM Sex Toys I Own and How I Use Them
“Holy shit. That’s a lot of sex toys!” I exclaimed. Seeing them all laid out on the floor of my
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How to Tease Your Sub to an Intense Orgasm
Want to reward your sub for being good with a super intense orgasm? In this guide for a dominant man
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