The fear of getting it wrong: How to turn your greatest weakness into your greatest strength
“I don’t know what to do”. “I can’t be a Dom until I’ve learned everything.” “How do I start when […]
E19: Happy New Year! Welcoming in 2023 with some D/s Questions
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, the podcast about D/s and BDSM for beginners, Chief and Moineau reflect on
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E18: Belle Talks About Her Experiences as a Beginner Submissive
In this BDSM podcast episode Belle talks about her experiences as a beginner submissive, how she overcame shame around her
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What is a BDSM Relationship?
Just what is a BDSM relationship? What does it involve? What sort of people participate? You’ve got so many questions,
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The One Question Beginner Submissives Ask Me Over and Over
There’s one question I’ve been asked countless times over the years. How do I be a good submissive for my
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5 Things I’ve Learned as a Beginner Submissive
I have known that I’m kinky for as long as I can remember, but it’s only recently that I have
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Confessions of a Sub: Teasing and Begging
The Boss gently slipped the blindfold over my eyes and told me to lie back on the bed. He carefully
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5 Things You Should Know About Aftercare
If you are new to BDSM you might not be familiar with aftercare. Aftercare refers to the soothing care provided
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5 Things You May Not Know About BDSM
The world of kink and BDSM is massive. If you are new this can be both daunting and exciting. There
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E17: Sub Takeover! Two Subs Answer Your Anal Sex Questions
Anal aficionado Moineau and anal virgin Belle answer questions submitted by readers of the Kinky Events community (Join here!) in
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Ann Summers Femme Fatale Luxury Thigh to Cuff Restraint Set Review
I popped into Ann Summers on a recent weekend trip to Oxford. I don’t typically venture into Ann Summers as
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E16: Rituals, Fitting D/s into Your Everyday, and Overcoming the Slump
In this BDSM podcast episode of Conversations with a Dom, Chief and Moineau discuss how they’ve recently hit a slump,
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Confessions of a Sub: When Scenes Go Wrong
The Boss looked down at me on my knees in front of him. He stood confidently in the summer sun,
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How to Get Your Dom to Do What You Want
I often hear Doms complaining of similar ailments in their relationship. They are fresh out of ideas and when they
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Coming Out About Your BDSM Desires
Whether you are new to BDSM or a seasoned professional that has been working the scene, at some point you
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Ep15: How to Talk About Sex with the Squirm Team
In this episode of the Conversations with a Dom BDSM podcast, Chief and Moineau talk to Kels and Tess from
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Why Submission is Essential in My Relationship
The room is dark. I am on my knees by the bed, waiting, head bowed, my breathing sharp and shallow.
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Three Tips To Get Your Scenes To Flow More Naturally
You and your Dominant have been texting up a storm. They talk about tying you up to the bedposts and
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Confessions of a Sub: Sex Club Debut
The Boss grabbed my hand and walked towards the door of The Townhouse. We’d been fantasising about exploring a sex
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Five Self-Care Tips for Submissives
Often in a BDSM dynamic, we can get focused on care coming from an external place. A Daddy-Dom caring for
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The Power of a Dom/sub Relationship
Not long ago during a Sunday evening in lockdown my wife asked me a question. “When was it that you
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10 Warning Signs You’re Dealing With a Bad Dominant: A Submissive’s Guide to Avoiding Insecure Men Masquerading as Doms
You know how your body reacts to just the thought of being dominated by a strong, powerful man? It begins
Confessions of a Sub: Sex Al Fresco
Having sex outside is exciting: sun on bare skin, a soft breeze turning nipples hard, the possibility of being caught
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6 First Steps to Becoming a Great Submissive in a Dom/sub Relationship (In-depth Guide)
So you think you want to be a submissive, and you have found someone to be your Dominant. Perhaps the
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How to Be a Bratty Submissive (6 Guaranteed Ways to Rile Up Your Dominant)
Ah, the bratty submissive… The brat submissive is one of those I both love and hate as a Dom. They
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The Basics of Pet Play
What is pet play? It is a form of D/s relationship in which the Dominant takes on the role of
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Ep14: Subdrop, Aftercare, and Other D/s Stuff (Wisdom Talk)
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Chief and Moineau experiment with Wisdom, an app where mentors can give
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Confessions of a Sub: First Time Scene Nerves
I lifted a corner of the satin blindfold from my eyes and took one last peek around the living room.
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The One Thing Your Submissive Craves
To the completely untrained eye, it can appear as though us submissives crave violence. It can definitely seem that way
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Reigniting the Passion in an Ever Evolving Dom/Sub Dynamic
If you are currently in a D/s relationship, at this point you and your partner have taken the time to
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Love and Leashes: 11 Quotes from Netflix’s New Korean BDSM Film (Reviewed by a Real Submissive)
I was immediately sceptical when I heard the popular streaming service had released a new BDSM film. Without throwing shade
24 Dirty Things to Say to Your Boyfriend During Sex to Make Him More Dominant
Does your boyfriend or husband need a little encouragement to unleash his inner dominant in the bedroom? The 24 dirty
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Ep 13: Moineau asks Chief about His Kinky Beginnings (Plus Other Questions)
In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, the podcast all about dominants and submissive’s, Moineau asks Chief some personal
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