Welcome to the world of power play, where the thrill of dominance and submission can bring an electrifying edge to […]
4 exciting flavours of power play to explore as a BDSM beginner (with 50+ examples) Read More »
Hey, kinksters. 2023 has been a year filled with ups, downs, and a few sideways glances. I wanted to write
11 reflections on being a BDSM educator in 2023: Looking, learning, and a lot of work Read More »
It’s easy to get bogged down in the complexities of BDSM as a beginner. But really, there are just a
10 fundamental guidelines to follow for a healthy and happy BDSM relationship Read More »
So you’ve stumbled across this website because you’re curious about BDSM and want to learn more. Should you do an
5 reasons an online BDSM course beats an in-person one Read More »
A reader recently emailed me this (some parts changed to keep it anonymous): As a new dom my personal challenge
How do I introduce BDSM into a long-term relationship as a Dominant? Read More »
Sub Drop. It’s the emotional hangover of BDSM, and trust me, it’s real. “Sub Drop” (sometimes written Sub-drop or Subdrop)
Sub Drop: A Comprehensive Guide to Sub Drop in BDSM Read More »
Do you overthink your BDSM scenes or D/s dynamic? In this BDSM podcast episode, Chief shares his thoughts on why
E38: Stop overthinking your Dom/sub dynamic Read More »
Chief and Moineau chat with Miss Mae Ling, a professional Dominatrix living in Los Angeles. How did she come to
E37: Professional Dominatrix Miss Mae Ling shares her secrets Read More »
In this BDSM podcast episode, Chief and Moineau discuss a Reddit thread titled ‘Wives of Reddit, what is a sexual
E36: What sexual fantasy could you never tell your partner about? Read More »
The world of BDSM and public kink is an exhilarating and often controversial realm that is continually subject to debate
Public BDSM: 5 ways to get kinky in public without anyone knowing Read More »
Get ready for a sizzling rollercoaster of emotions in this electrifying episode! Join us as we delve into the uncharted
E35: We discuss our first sensual dominance public performance Read More »
Could you imagine showing up to a Shakespearean play in full gimp attire? Talk about a culture shock! In this
E34: How to Powerplay in Public (5 Ways) Read More »
In this BDSM podcast episode Chief and Moineau discuss the Pleasure Dom. Have you ever wondered about the intriguing world
E33: The Psychology of the Pleasure Dom Read More »
Boot worship is a BDSM kink or fetish where individuals derive sexual arousal and enjoyment from boots. It is one
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Key takeaways I’ll admit that I hadn’t heard the term Pleasure Dom until fairly recently. Typically when I hear the
The Pleasure Dom (what it is and how to be one) Read More »
DDlg stands for Daddy Dom/little girl. It’s a form of BDSM roleplay where two adults consent to talking on roles
DDLG: A complete guide to Daddy Dom little girl dynamics Read More »
Topping from the bottom is when a person who has agreed to relinquish power in a power-play dynamic attempts to
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Impact play is a form of BDSM that involves consensual striking or hitting of the body for pleasure. It can
What is impact play? (and should you try it…) Read More »
Powerplay in Dom/sub relationships is a fundamental aspect of BDSM dynamics. It involves the exchange of power and control between
Powerplay in Dom sub relationships (what you need to know) Read More »
So you’ve realised you’re kinky but have no idea how to tell your partner. Or you’re in a new relationship
How to tell your partner you’re kinky (without the drama) Read More »
Welcome to my review of the Le Wand Original Massager vs the Le Wand Petite Massager (plus special guest –
Le Wand Massager Review (Petite vs Original) Read More »
In this BDSM podcast episode, Moineau discusses her experiences with anxiety and how it has impacted her dating, sex, and
E32: Anxiety and BDSM (with Moineau) Read More »
Which wand vibrator is best? Chief pits two Le Wand massagers against his trusty Lovehoney mains-powered magic wand vibrator to
Chief and Moineau posed the question ‘What does D/s mean to you?’ to our Discord community members to see how
E30: What does D/s mean to you? Read More »
In this intriguing episode of the Kinky Events BDSM podcast, Chief and Moineau dive into a fascinating 2014 research paper
E29: How unusual are your sexual fantasies? Read More »
This article is sponsored by Lovehoney. Basically, they sent me a gift card and said ‘buy whatever you want’ in
We-Vibe Nova 2 Review: The App-Controlled Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator Read More »
Are you a beginner sub confused about where to begin on your BDSM journey? This episode of Conversations With A
E28: 9 Mistakes beginner submissives make time and again (aka how to protect yourself) Read More »
In this BDSM podcast episode, Chief and Moineau discuss their trip to the Venus Star Resort for swingers in Gran
E27: Spring swinging shenanigans at the Venus Star Resort in Maspalomas, Gran Canaria Read More »
In this BDSM podcast episode Chief and Moineau review the Divine Darkness London kinky party they attended, then talk about
E26: Divine Darkness party review, face fucking & Spring BDSM scenes ideas Read More »
In this BDSM podcast episode, Chief and Moineau help two readers who submitted questions about transitioning from a Master/slave dynamic
E25: Swinging pineapples, kinky conundrums, and reader questions Read More »
In this BDSM podcast episode, Mistress Jayne, a London-based Dominant shares her story of how she ended up in this
E24: Divine Darkness with special guest Mistress Jayne Read More »
In this BDSM podcast episode, I dish out my favourite tips and techniques for heightening submission and having loads of
E23: 9 powerful techniques to supercharge your dominance and drive your submissive wild Read More »
In this episode of the popular Conversations with a Dom podcast Moineau and Chief talk to Emily, a reader who
E22: How Herpes simplex virus impacts D/s with guest Emily Read More »
