20 Popular BDSM Guides
The most popular guides to BDSM, powerplay, and Dom sub dynamics for beginners on the Kinky Events website.
The articles below are the 20 most read on this website in the past 30 days. They reflect the most popular BDSM guides to read as someone looking to venture into the world of dominance and submission.
- 7 Ways to Spot a Fake Dom (and Why You Should Avoid Them)
When dating as a submissive it is important to look out for Fake Doms. In this guide I’ll explain what a Fake Dom is, why they’re bad news, and how to spot them in the wild. What is a Fake Dom? Fake Dom is the term given to a person who claims to be a Dominant when in reality they have no clue what…
- 29 More Dirty Text Messages to Tease Your Submissive With
It’s the middle of the Coronavirus pandemic and you’re stuck indoors. Maybe you haven’t seen your sub all week and you’re feeling frisky. Maybe you just want to turn your girlfriend on from across the room as she works away busily on that sales presentation. Either way, you need some inspiration on…
- How to Dominate a Woman in the Bedroom: A Beginner’s Guide with Pictures (NSFW)
Want to build your sexual confidence? Want to blow her mind and give her earth shattering orgasms? Want to make sure she remembers you for years to come? Then you need to learn to dominate a woman in bed. You’ve come to the right place. I’m going to share some of my secrets to dominating her mentall…
- DDLG Rules: A Little List of Rules for Littles
So you’ve got yourself into a Daddy Dom, Little Girl relationship. Congratulations. Now you need some DDLG rules to keep everything on track. Caring for your little is one of life’s great pleasures. And you know that as well as love, they crave discipline and structure from their Daddy. Because you…
- How to Be a Good Submissive Slave
Interested in how to be a better submissive slave? Want a Master of your own (who also owns you)? If you’re reading this article then you probably already find the idea of being a slave appealing. Perhaps you’ve read some erotic fiction or watched slave porn, and you’re interested in the concept. Ma…
- 7 Dominant Commands You Can Give Your Sub By Text Message
Domming someone remotely isn’t easy. Sometimes you just can’t think of any new ideas of what to text them. This list should help you out. I’ve tried all of these messages and had great results. Before you dominate your girl via text I must preface this article by saying you will only get a positive…
- How to Be a Dom: A Beginner’s Guide
If you have recently discovered the world of BDSM and kink, and want to know how to be a dom then this guide is for you. And not just any dom, but I’m going to teach you how to be a good dom. In this guide, I’m going to walk you through all the things you need to know if you are serious about being…
- Submissive Rules: A Complete Guide to Setting Rules for Subs (with Examples)
Coming up with submissive rules for your sub to follow is a really fun part of a dom sub relationship. But if you’re new to the BDSM scene you might not know the types of rules to set or even what a list of basic sub rules to follow should be. In this submissive rules guide I’ll help you understand:…
- Bondage, Discipline & Training, Discipline, Master/Slave, Roles & Responsibilities, Sadism & MasochismSubmissive Punishments: How to Punish Your sub Like a Pro Dom
Submissive punishments are a tenant of BDSM. But what makes a good punishment? When does a sub deserve to be punished? And what can go wrong? In this complete guide to submissive punishments, I’ll reveal all. What are submissive punishments? A punishment in a BDSM relationship is dished out by the d…
- 5 Ways to Make Your Boyfriend More Dominant in Bed
He’s timid in bed but you want the good stuff. How do you make your boyfriend more dominant in the bedroom, and your relationship in general? I grew up as the typical polite young man. I didn’t even believe women enjoyed and wanted sex, let alone to be dominated in bed. So imagine my surprise when a…
- Bed Restraints: A Complete Buyer’s Guide
Looking to spice up your sex life? Bed restraints are a great way to do just that. They are pieces of BDSM kit no dominant should be without. In this guide, we’ll tell you how they can be used, and some things to look out for when you want to buy under bed restraints for your home because they aren’…
- Rug Burn: A Fun Living Room BDSM Scene Idea for Dom Sub Couples (With Photos)
There’s something kinkier about sex outside the bedroom than in it. So when my new shag pile rug arrived for the living room, I decided it needed a kinky christening.Below is how the BDSM scene played out, along with some tips, which I hope will inspire you to try out new things and make your sex li…
- Sex Menu: A Beginner’s Guide for Doms and Subs
A sex menu is something people haven’t heard of, and if they have, haven’t got around to completing one. After reading this guide, I hope you’ll consider filling one in. I promise it’ll help you have even hotter, more intense sex, and spice up your dom/sub relationship. What is a sex menu? A sex men…
- The Charmore Society Street Party (Plus 6 Munch Tips)
On Friday evening Moineau and I made our way to the Chardmore Society annual street party in Hoxton, London. It was a last minute decision to go, but my itch to meet kinky people and socialise again needed scratching. I had no knowledge of the Chardmore Society, and had never been to one of their ev…
- Dom sub Relationships: The Ultimate Guide for Beginners
I’ve collated some of the more popular questions about Dom sub relationships below. Whilst reading, remember that the stereotypical image of a woman wearing PVC chained to the wall whilst her Dom wearing leather and waving a flogger around is only one aspect of domination and submission. Dom and sub…
- What is a Rope Bunny?
The term Rope Bunny is used to describe a person who enjoys being tied up with rope. This may be for a variety of reasons, as described below. Just because someone is a rope bunny does not necessarily mean they are a submissive. They may just be a ‘bottom’. But due to the language this is often the…
- The Power of Repetition for Inducing a Submissive Mindset
I love a good massage. Not in a sexual way. But in a “wow this feels incredibly relaxing” kind of way. During a great massage the therapist does two things incredibly well. Firstly they will always have one hand in contact with your body as they move around the table. The pu…
- Can a Submissive be Dominant in Everyday Life?
A reader asks: First, you ask if it is a thing for someone to be submissive in the bedroom but assertive out of it. The answer is, absolutely yes. There is no right or wrong in BDSM and D/s so don’t worry if something is ‘normal’. You must set up the relationship which suits you, and communicate you…
- BDSM for Beginners: Everything You Need to Know to Get Started
Welcome to the fascinating world of BDSM, a place where fantasy meets reality, boundaries are explored with respect, and consent reigns supreme. If you’re stepping into this world for the first time, you might feel a mix of excitement and apprehension. Rest assured, you’re in good company, and this…
- Bondage, Discipline & Training, Discipline, Master/Slave, Roles & Responsibilities, Sadism & MasochismSlave Training: A Master’s Complete Guide to Training His Submissive
So you want to know everything there is to know about BDSM slave training… You’ve come to the right place, my friend. Sit down, strap in, and let me walk you through what I’ve learned in the past few years about owning and training a submissive slave. I recommend reading this slave training manual…