Chief and Moineau posed the question ‘What does D/s mean to you?’ to our Discord community members to see how they felt about it. The results we got back were inspiring, moving, deep, and generally wonderful. In this episode, we share what they wrote and reflect on our own thoughts about power play and being in a relationship revolving around dominance and submission.
Kinky kinship is definitely one of my favorite aspects of BDSM which I need and love. It is so relaxing to be my complete self. Although not everyone in my kinksphere identifies as D/s, most identify as Top and bottom for sure.
For me, D/s done well is an active exchange of energy where one craves the other’s darkness or light and that other craves the same. BOTH sides of the slash show their commitment through acts of service just in different ways.