Hey, kinksters. 2023 has been a year filled with ups, downs, and a few sideways glances. I wanted to write […]
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On Friday evening Moineau and I made our way to the Chardmore Society annual street party in Hoxton, London. It
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Moineau looked at me questioningly from her kneeling position on the rug. I realised I hadn’t given her permission to
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Editor’s note: Since writing this article both The Community and my rope bondage course mentioned below have launched. I don’t
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Alright my little Kinksters. I don’t know about you, but coronavirus killed ALL my kinky plans for 2020. Not only
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We are still in the middle of the Coronavirus pandemic. Here in London we’re allowed to belong to one ‘support
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Sometimes I feel as though I am playing at being a dom instead of really being one. I don’t wear
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If you’ve read my other stuff, you’ll know that I’m not the type of hardcore rigger that gets super turned
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I’m by no means a sexual Olympian, but I’ve probably had a few more threesomes than the average person you’d
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Her naked bum wiggled in the air naughtily. I couldn’t tell if she was shaking off the lingering stings caused
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We were meeting another submissive woman to see if we could incorporate someone else into our kinky play, and perhaps
I hadn’t appreciated how many of you filthy reprobates are interesting in cockwarming (sometimes referred to as cock sleeving, although
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Moineau had messaged me earlier saying she had accidentally played with herself. I was due to see her that evening,
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The D/s dynamic I enjoy is unique to me and the type of dominant I am. No two dynamics will
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It’s our third trip to this adult swingers club in London in four weeks (Le Boudoir in case you hadn’t
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She feels me stirring on a Saturday morning. She’s been awake for a while, waiting. Once she knows I’m semi-conscious,
Morning Cockwarming Read More »
When people hear me say I am a Dom they are either intrigued or horrified. Those who are horrified I
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Waiting to be buzzed in at a nondescript door near midnight, black dress, hold-ups and high heels under my coat,
Le Boudoir Review: What’s it Like Attending as a Submissive Woman? Read More »
If you want to know what we did in the dungeon, who we got down and dirty with, and the kind of experience you’ll have at Le Boudoir, then read on.
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There were far more people there than I anticipated. Despite arriving at 6.50pm for the 7pm talk, the room was already at club levels of business. I pushed through the crowd to get a drink before doing a quick lap in the hope of spotting the couple of people who had messaged me earlier in the day to let me know they would be attending.
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What’s it like as a couple attending a fetish party such as Klub Verboten? Is it hardcore? What’s the atmosphere? Do people have sex? Read on to find out.
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Walking away from my first Feeld social event I have a smile on my face. It’s a smile that is
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In October my journey with this blog began. I attended three kink related events and skimmed another one (more on
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After a few drinks in the office it was approaching 9pm, and I was already two hours late for the
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There are probably more kink events happening in London than you realise. I want to show a few ways I look for upcoming kink events, be that talks, workshops or full-blown parties.
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Heading into Hoxton Square on a damp October Monday night I was excited at the prospect of breaking away from the normality of office chit-chat, and entering an environment where discussing sex and sexuality with open-minded people was encouraged.
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