Meeting a Third
We were meeting another submissive woman to see if we could incorporate someone else into our kinky play, and perhaps […]
What does Dom and sub mean?
What is the meaning of Dom and sub? Dom stands for Dominant and sub for submissive. The phrase Dom and
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9 Creative Submissive Training and Kinky Scene Ideas
Like any relationship, things get stale over time and need a refresh. But coming up with kinky ideas to do
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5 Ways to Make Your Boyfriend More Dominant in Bed
He’s timid in bed but you want the good stuff. How do you make your boyfriend more dominant in the
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34 BDSM Sex Toys I Own and How I Use Them
“Holy shit. That’s a lot of sex toys!” I exclaimed. Seeing them all laid out on the floor of my
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10 Anal Training Steps for Beginners
Anal training is a process you and your Dom go through to prepare you for anal penetration. If you are
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How to Tease Your Sub to an Intense Orgasm
Want to reward your sub for being good with a super intense orgasm? In this guide for a dominant man
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Hunting Down The Ideal Cockwarming Lap Desk
I hadn’t appreciated how many of you filthy reprobates are interesting in cockwarming (sometimes referred to as cock sleeving, although
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Sex Menu: A Beginner’s Guide for Doms and Subs
A sex menu is something people haven’t heard of, and if they have, haven’t got around to completing one. After
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How to Be a Dom: A Beginner’s Guide
If you have recently discovered the world of BDSM and kink, and want to know how to be a dom
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Sofa Plaything (Plus Anal Training)
Moineau had messaged me earlier saying she had accidentally played with herself. I was due to see her that evening,
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51 DDLG Activities For The Little in You
Are you in a DDLG (Daddy Dom, Little Girl) relationship? Or are you a little who wants some cute DDLG
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BDSM Contracts: A Beginner’s Guide
A BDSM contract is a document detailing the expectations two people in a dominant and submissive relationship have of each
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Submissive Punishments: How to Punish Your sub Like a Pro Dom
Submissive punishments are a tenant of BDSM. But what makes a good punishment? When does a sub deserve to be
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Dom sub Relationships: The Ultimate Guide for Beginners
I’ve collated some of the more popular questions about Dom sub relationships below. Whilst reading, remember that the stereotypical image
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9 Tips for the Beginner Dominant
So you’re a beginner dominant and want to know what the hell to do. Starting out can be confusing and
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My D/s Dynamic (The Type of Dominant I Am)
The D/s dynamic I enjoy is unique to me and the type of dominant I am. No two dynamics will
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Submissive Rules: A Complete Guide to Setting Rules for Subs (with Examples)
Coming up with submissive rules for your sub to follow is a really fun part of a dom sub relationship.
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Night Three at The Best Swingers Club in London
It’s our third trip to this adult swingers club in London in four weeks (Le Boudoir in case you hadn’t
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7 Dominant Commands You Can Give Your Sub By Text Message
Domming someone remotely isn’t easy. Sometimes you just can’t think of any new ideas of what to text them. This
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Why Would a Woman Want to Be a Submissive?
I get asked why a woman would want to be a submissive in a dominant submissive relationship often. Whenever I
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Morning Cockwarming
She feels me stirring on a Saturday morning. She’s been awake for a while, waiting. Once she knows I’m semi-conscious,
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What Does Being a Dom Mean to Me?
When people hear me say I am a Dom they are either intrigued or horrified. Those who are horrified I
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Cockwarming: A Beginner’s Guide to the Cock Warming Kink
Cockwarming. You’ve seen it mentioned on an obscure BDSM forum and are intrigued. What is it? Who practises it? Is
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How to Be a Good Submissive Slave
Interested in how to be a better submissive slave? Want a Master of your own (who also owns you)? If
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Bed Restraints: A Complete Buyer’s Guide
Looking to spice up your sex life? Bed restraints are a great way to do just that. They are pieces
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Slave Training: A Master’s Complete Guide to Training His Submissive
So you want to know everything there is to know about BDSM slave training… You’ve come to the right place,
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How to Dominate a Woman in the Bedroom: A Beginner’s Guide with Pictures (NSFW)
Want to build your sexual confidence? Want to blow her mind and give her earth shattering orgasms? Want to make
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Five Day Collar Styles You’ll See Submissive Women Wearing in Public
Submissive women can often be seen in public wearing discreet BDSM collars known as a day collar. These pieces of
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Le Boudoir Review: What’s it Like Attending as a Submissive Woman?
Waiting to be buzzed in at a nondescript door near midnight, black dress, hold-ups and high heels under my coat,
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Three Types of BDSM Collar I Own and Their Uses
Being a DDLG (Daddy Dom, Little Girl) type of Dom I’m not into hardcore, chunky, metallic slave BDSM collars. The
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What is a Day Collar?
A day collar is a collar designed to be worn by a sub during the day, outside of the house,
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What Does a Choker Mean on a Girl?
What does it mean when you see a woman wearing a choker around their neck? Does it automatically mean they
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