Embrace Your Inner Submissive: How to be a better sub in less time.

Hello you 🙂

I write guides and articles about what it is like to be in a Dom/sub relationship with someone.

If you are looking to embrace your inner submissive, or want your man to step up and be more dominant with you inside (and/or outside) the bedroom, then I’ve got some resources I think you’ll enjoy.

Beginner submissives

Below are a selection of guides I believe you’ll find most useful when you’re just learning about submission.

• What is a sub? And What Types Are There?
• What is the Meaning of Dom and Sub?
• What Submissive Personality Are You? (Quiz)
• Dom Sub Relationships: The Ultimate Guide for Beginners
• Rope Bondage 101: A Complete Guide to Restraining Your Submissive with Rope for Dominants
• Submissive Punishments: The Complete Guide
• Submissive Rules: A Complete Guide to Setting Rules for Subs (with Examples)
• Sex Menu: A Beginner’s Guide
• BDSM Contracts: A Beginner’s Guide
• Three Types of Sub Collar I Own and Their Uses

Get started with those, and then explore the rest of the site.

Extra reading for Little subs

If you identify as a Little (enjoy having someone take care of you, guide you, and emotionally support you as a father figure would), read these too.

• DDLG Rules: A Little List of Rules for Littles
• 51 DDLG Activities For The Little in You

Extra reading for service-orientated subs

If you identity as being a service orientated sub or slave type (enjoy doing non-sexual things for other people outside the bedroom as well as in it), read these too.

• How to be a Good Submissive Slave
• Slave Training: A Master’s Complete Guide to Training His Submissive

Extra reading for sexual subs

If you identify as a sexual sub who enjoys the more sexual aspects of dom sub relationships, wants kinkier sex, to please their partner, or simply wants to be used as a sex object for his gratification, read these too.

• Getting Started with Anal Training: 10 Step Process
• Cockwarming: A Beginner’s Guide to the Cock Warming Kink
• How to Tease Your Sub to an Intense Orgasm
• 5 Ways to Make Your Boyfriend More Dominant in Bed

Kinky scene ideas for submissives

• Experimenting with Rope Bondage
• Flogging Her (Plus Sleepy Sex)
• Sofa Plaything (Plus Anal Training)
• Morning Cockwarming
• What My Sub and I Did at London’s Secret Sex Venue
• Tied to a Chair and Made to Serve

Questions submissives frequently ask

1. I Have Kink X. Am I normal?
2. My Dominant Asked Me to Do Something But I Don’t Want to. Am I a Bad Sub?
3. How Do I Find A Dominant Partner?
4. How Do I Get My Boyfriend To Be More Dominant?
5. Why Would a Woman Want to Be a Submissive?
6. What Does it Mean When a Dom Collars a Sub?