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DDLG Rules: A Little List of Rules for Littles

July 7, 2020 / 24 Comments

So you’ve got yourself into a Daddy Dom, Little Girl relationship. Congratulations. Now you need some DDLG rules to keep […]

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Flogging Her (Plus Sleepy Sex)

July 6, 2020 / 3 Comments

Her naked bum wiggled in the air naughtily. I couldn’t tell if she was shaking off the lingering stings caused

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What is a sub? And what types of sub exist?

July 5, 2020 / 18 Comments

What is a sub? It’s short for submissive and describes a person (male or female) who exhibits submissive personality traits

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9 Responsibilities of a Dominant in a Dom Sub Relationship

July 4, 2020 / 17 Comments

The primary responsibilities of a dominant are to assist with creating a consensual power dynamic during sex, and perhaps also

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Meeting a Third

July 1, 2020 / Leave a Comment

We were meeting another submissive woman to see if we could incorporate someone else into our kinky play, and perhaps

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What does Dom and sub mean?

July 1, 2020 / Leave a Comment

What is the meaning of Dom and sub? Dom stands for Dominant and sub for submissive. The phrase Dom and

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9 Creative Submissive Training and Kinky Scene Ideas

June 30, 2020 / Leave a Comment

Like any relationship, things get stale over time and need a refresh. But coming up with kinky ideas to do

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5 Ways to Make Your Boyfriend More Dominant in Bed

June 25, 2020 / 16 Comments

He’s timid in bed but you want the good stuff. How do you make your boyfriend more dominant in the

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34 BDSM Sex Toys I Own and How I Use Them

June 23, 2020 / 2 Comments

“Holy shit. That’s a lot of sex toys!” I exclaimed. Seeing them all laid out on the floor of my

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10 Anal Training Steps for Beginners

June 19, 2020 / 9 Comments

Anal training is a process you and your Dom go through to prepare you for anal penetration. If you are

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How to Tease Your Sub to an Intense Orgasm

June 18, 2020 / 6 Comments

Want to reward your sub for being good with a super intense orgasm? In this guide for a dominant man

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Hunting Down The Ideal Cockwarming Lap Desk

June 2, 2020 / 1 Comment

I hadn’t appreciated how many of you filthy reprobates are interesting in cockwarming (sometimes referred to as cock sleeving, although

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A beginners guide to sex menus in BDSM relationships

Sex Menu: A Beginner’s Guide for Doms and Subs

March 16, 2020 / 11 Comments

A sex menu is something people haven’t heard of, and if they have, haven’t got around to completing one. After

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How to Be a Dom: A Beginner’s Guide

March 14, 2020 / 42 Comments

If you have recently discovered the world of BDSM and kink, and want to know how to be a dom

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Sofa Plaything (Plus Anal Training)

March 5, 2020 / 9 Comments

Moineau had messaged me earlier saying she had accidentally played with herself. I was due to see her that evening,

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51 DDLG Activities For The Little in You

March 5, 2020 / 15 Comments

Are you in a DDLG (Daddy Dom, Little Girl) relationship? Or are you a little who wants some cute DDLG

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BDSM Contracts: A Beginner’s Guide

March 4, 2020 / 5 Comments

A BDSM contract is a document detailing the expectations two people in a dominant and submissive relationship have of each

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Submissive Punishments: How to Punish Your sub Like a Pro Dom

March 3, 2020 / 45 Comments

Submissive punishments are a tenant of BDSM. But what makes a good punishment? When does a sub deserve to be

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Dom sub Relationships: The Ultimate Guide for Beginners

March 1, 2020 / 30 Comments

I’ve collated some of the more popular questions about Dom sub relationships below. Whilst reading, remember that the stereotypical image

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9 Tips for the Beginner Dominant

February 28, 2020 / 12 Comments

So you’re a beginner dominant and want to know what the hell to do. Starting out can be confusing and

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My D/s Dynamic (The Type of Dominant I Am)

February 27, 2020 / 7 Comments

The D/s dynamic I enjoy is unique to me and the type of dominant I am. No two dynamics will

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Submissive Rules: A Complete Guide to Setting Rules for Subs (with Examples)

February 25, 2020 / 70 Comments

Coming up with submissive rules for your sub to follow is a really fun part of a dom sub relationship.

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Night Three at The Best Swingers Club in London

February 24, 2020 / 1 Comment

It’s our third trip to this adult swingers club in London in four weeks (Le Boudoir in case you hadn’t

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7 Dominant Commands You Can Give Your Sub By Text Message

February 22, 2020 / 49 Comments

Domming someone remotely isn’t easy. Sometimes you just can’t think of any new ideas of what to text them. This

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Why Would a Woman Want to Be a Submissive?

February 22, 2020 / 28 Comments

I get asked why a woman would want to be a submissive in a dominant submissive relationship often. Whenever I

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Morning Cockwarming

February 21, 2020 / 4 Comments

She feels me stirring on a Saturday morning. She’s been awake for a while, waiting. Once she knows I’m semi-conscious,

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What Does Being a Dom Mean to Me?

February 21, 2020 / 31 Comments

When people hear me say I am a Dom they are either intrigued or horrified.  Those who are horrified I

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Cockwarming: A Beginner’s Guide to the Cock Warming Kink

February 19, 2020 / 30 Comments

Cockwarming. You’ve seen it mentioned on an obscure BDSM forum and are intrigued. What is it? Who practises it? Is

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How to Be a Good Submissive Slave

February 17, 2020 / 10 Comments

Interested in how to be a better submissive slave? Want a Master of your own (who also owns you)? If

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A buyers guide to the best under bed restraint systems

Bed Restraints: A Complete Buyer’s Guide

February 15, 2020 / Leave a Comment

Looking to spice up your sex life? Bed restraints are a great way to do just that. They are pieces

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Slave Training: A Master’s Complete Guide to Training His Submissive

February 14, 2020 / 20 Comments

So you want to know everything there is to know about BDSM slave training… You’ve come to the right place,

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How to Dominate a Woman in the Bedroom: A Beginner’s Guide with Pictures (NSFW)

February 13, 2020 / 5 Comments

Want to build your sexual confidence? Want to blow her mind and give her earth shattering orgasms? Want to make

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Five Day Collar Styles You’ll See Submissive Women Wearing in Public

February 9, 2020 / 4 Comments

Submissive women can often be seen in public wearing discreet BDSM collars known as a day collar. These pieces of

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