The Pleasure Dom (what it is and how to be one)
Key takeaways I’ll admit that I hadn’t heard the term Pleasure Dom until fairly recently. Typically when I hear the […]
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DDLG: A complete guide to Daddy Dom little girl dynamics
DDlg stands for Daddy Dom/little girl. It’s a form of BDSM roleplay where two adults consent to talking on roles
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5 Things I’ve Learned as a Beginner Submissive
I have known that I’m kinky for as long as I can remember, but it’s only recently that I have
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What Being a Dominant REALLY Means
When my partners first told me they were submissive and wanted me to dominate them, I didn’t know what they
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Experimenting with Higher Protocol Service Dynamics
Moineau looked at me questioningly from her kneeling position on the rug. I realised I hadn’t given her permission to
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7 Ways to Spot a Fake Dom (and Why You Should Avoid Them)
When dating as a submissive it is important to look out for Fake Doms. In this guide I’ll explain what
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I Asked My Readers What Being a Submissive Means To Them. Here’s What They Said
I love talking to other dominants and submissives about their experiences of D/s relationships. Be it beginners just starting out
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An Example of How I Structure My BDSM Scenes
Last night I had a great session with my sub. It had been a while since we’d seen each other
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Rope Bondage: A Beginner’s Guide to Shibari Bondage for BDSM
In this rope bondage tutorial for beginners you’ll learn the exactly what you need to know about Shibari bondage (Japanese
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5 Basic Mistakes Beginner Dominants Make (and What to Do Instead)
When I began my journey towards being a dom, I didn’t really know how to judge if I was doing
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The Question All Beginner Dominants Should Ask Themselves
The one question a beginner dominant should ask themselves is, why am I doing this? If you are a dominant
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How to be Submissive in a Relationship (8 Practical Steps)
So you want to be submissive in a relationship. I’m assuming this is as opposed to being submissive outside of
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DDLG Rules: A Little List of Rules for Littles
So you’ve got yourself into a Daddy Dom, Little Girl relationship. Congratulations. Now you need some DDLG rules to keep
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What is a sub? And what types of sub exist?
What is a sub? It’s short for submissive and describes a person (male or female) who exhibits submissive personality traits
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9 Responsibilities of a Dominant in a Dom Sub Relationship
The primary responsibilities of a dominant are to assist with creating a consensual power dynamic during sex, and perhaps also
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What does Dom and sub mean?
What is the meaning of Dom and sub? Dom stands for Dominant and sub for submissive. The phrase Dom and
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5 Ways to Make Your Boyfriend More Dominant in Bed
He’s timid in bed but you want the good stuff. How do you make your boyfriend more dominant in the
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Sex Menu: A Beginner’s Guide for Doms and Subs
A sex menu is something people haven’t heard of, and if they have, haven’t got around to completing one. After
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How to Be a Dom: A Beginner’s Guide
If you have recently discovered the world of BDSM and kink, and want to know how to be a dom
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51 DDLG Activities For The Little in You
Are you in a DDLG (Daddy Dom, Little Girl) relationship? Or are you a little who wants some cute DDLG
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Submissive Punishments: How to Punish Your sub Like a Pro Dom
Submissive punishments are a tenant of BDSM. But what makes a good punishment? When does a sub deserve to be
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Dom sub Relationships: The Ultimate Guide for Beginners
I’ve collated some of the more popular questions about Dom sub relationships below. Whilst reading, remember that the stereotypical image
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9 Tips for the Beginner Dominant
So you’re a beginner dominant and want to know what the hell to do. Starting out can be confusing and
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My D/s Dynamic (The Type of Dominant I Am)
The D/s dynamic I enjoy is unique to me and the type of dominant I am. No two dynamics will
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What Does Being a Dom Mean to Me?
When people hear me say I am a Dom they are either intrigued or horrified. Those who are horrified I
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How to Be a Good Submissive Slave
Interested in how to be a better submissive slave? Want a Master of your own (who also owns you)? If
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Slave Training: A Master’s Complete Guide to Training His Submissive
So you want to know everything there is to know about BDSM slave training… You’ve come to the right place,
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