So you think you want to be a submissive, and you have found someone to be your Dominant. Perhaps the […]
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Ah, the bratty submissive… The brat submissive is one of those I both love and hate as a Dom. They
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To the completely untrained eye, it can appear as though us submissives crave violence. It can definitely seem that way
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If you are currently in a D/s relationship, at this point you and your partner have taken the time to
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I was immediately sceptical when I heard the popular streaming service had released a new BDSM film. Without throwing shade
Nervous about dominating a submissive for the first time? Then you’ve come to the right place. These ten tips will
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I want to share one exercise you can use to have kinkier fun. Don’t dismiss it due to it’s simplicity.
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Every heard the phrase Total Power Exchange in the context of BDSM and wondered what it meant? Or someone mentioning
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When my partners first told me they were submissive and wanted me to dominate them, I didn’t know what they
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I recently had a question from a reader who is learning what it means to be a Dom. They wrote
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As a beginner Dominant or Submissive you don’t have to make your BDSM scenes as intense as what is shown
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I love a good massage. Not in a sexual way. But in a “wow this feels incredibly relaxing” kind of
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As I thought back to all the BDSM scenes I’d been involved in, I realised there were five core themes
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Subspace is the feeling of being zoned out, floaty, melty, and spaced out felt by the Submissive after an intense
I love talking to other dominants and submissives about their experiences of D/s relationships. Be it beginners just starting out
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Last night I had a great session with my sub. It had been a while since we’d seen each other
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Being an INTJ I love theory. I would prefer to spend an entire day reading about the psychology of arousal
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What is the meaning of Dom and sub? Dom stands for Dominant and sub for submissive. The phrase Dom and
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A BDSM contract is a document detailing the expectations two people in a dominant and submissive relationship have of each
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I get asked why a woman would want to be a submissive in a dominant submissive relationship often. Whenever I
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Being collared sexually is when a Dom (dominant) collars a sub (submissive) to signal that the sub belongs to the
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