E23: 9 powerful techniques to supercharge your dominance and drive your submissive wild

Conversations with a Dom BDSM podcast

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In this BDSM podcast episode, I dish out my favourite tips and techniques for heightening submission and having loads of fun in your power-play dynamic. There really are some KILLER tips in this episode that I’ve used and had fantastic results with for years. Enjoy!

In the world of BDSM, understanding and respecting a partner’s desires and boundaries is of utmost importance. In this episode I discuss ways to improve dominance in the bedroom, emphasizing the importance of reading a partner’s body language to understand what they enjoy.

The use of sex toys is also discussed, and I recommend the use of a mains-powered magic wand vibrator. Anchoring, a technique used to associate a physical touch with a specific emotional response, is also mentioned. I teach you a method for doing this, but warn against setting unrealistic expectations.

Repetition and rhythm are crucial in inducing a trancelike state, which is ideal for inducing subspace or getting someone into the submissive mindset. By keeping the same rhythm and tempo when spanking or using other techniques, a dom can help their sub reach that state. Additionally, alternating between pleasure and pain can keep things fresh and prevent the sub from anticipating the Dom’s actions.

The podcast episode also addresses the stigmatization of BDSM and the importance of making it more acceptable. By sharing information and resources about kink I hope to break down barriers and promote healthy and consensual BDSM practices, allowing more people to get pleasure from kink!

In conclusion, this episode of Conversations with a Dom provides valuable insights into improving dominance in the bedroom while promoting safe, respectful, and consensual BDSM practices. By emphasizing the importance of reading a partner’s body language, using appropriate equipment, and promoting open communication, you can continue to grow and evolve in a safe and positive manner as a beginner Dom.

The Art of Submission. A course for beginner submissives
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You’re definitely not speaking to walls🥰 keep up the great work .


We are listening!


Listening intently in Kentucky! Love your content, your tips need to be heard and shared by everyone.


👋 I’m that woman that doesn’t like the magic wand. I just find it overwhelming :/ Love your site and podcasts! Even bought my hubby your sensational scenes book. Please keep up the good (kinky) work!