9 Creative Submissive Training and Kinky Scene Ideas

Like any relationship, things get stale over time and need a refresh. But coming up with kinky ideas to do isn’t easy, especially if this whole Dom sub thing is new to you.

Submissive scene ideas

Below are some BDSM activities and adventures my sub and I have been on, either at public play partiers or in the comfort of my own home.

Each features a fairly graphic, NFSW description of what we did, written in a way that aims to be educational, but also give you BDSM ideas for your own scenes. They may also help you better understand what your ideal Dom sub relationship looks like.

Morning cockwarming. An erotic description of one of our cockwarming sessions.
Sofa plaything. Playing with her body as she lies naked across my lap on the sofa. Includes descriptions of anal training.
Attending a swingers club. A review of our trip to Le Boudoir, a swingers club in East London. (Her review is here).
Attending a swingers club part two. A review of our third trip to Le Boudoir.
Playing in a public dungeon. We went to Klub Verboten and got frisky in their dungeon room in front of strangers. Spanking details included.

Submissive training ideas

Training (learning what your Dom enjoys and how to please him) is an important part of a submissive’s role. And if you’re a Dom, training helps you learn what your submissive enjoys and wants (remember – it’s not all about you).

The guides below outline several training practises and processes I use that seem to work really well.

Pick the one that appeals most to you and give it a try.

How to Tease Your Sub to an Intense Orgasm. How to use edgeplay, anticipation and toys to build your submissive up to an intense orgasm (or deny her an orgasm).
Getting Started with Anal Training: 10 Step Process. If you are interested in trying anal as a submissive, this guide will help your partner and you through the training process.
Submissive Punishments: The Complete Guide. If you are more of a bratty submissive your Dom needs to know how to punish you when you’re naughty.
Cockwarming: A Beginner’s Guide to the Cock Warming Kink. Learn what cockwarming is and how to incorporate it into your Dom and sub relationship.

Give these ideas a go. I’d love to hear how you got on!

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