BDSM Theory

When I first dipped my toes into BDSM, I felt like an explorer setting off without a map. Some of […]

Curious about switching roles in BDSM? Being a “switch” means enjoying both dominant and submissive roles, depending on the situation

The concept of forcing your partner to be in bed by a specific time may sound unusual at first, but

What on earth are forced orgasms? Why do some couples partake in this practice? And how can YOU introduce it

Consensual non-consent (often shortened to CNC) is a kink where partners consensually agree to role-play a scenario that mimics non-consent.

You’ve heard about submission, maybe even felt drawn to it, but you’re not sure if it’s really for you. That’s

You’ve been thinking about exploring your submissive side, and the idea excites you. But every time you consider talking to

Welcome to the fascinating world of BDSM, a place where fantasy meets reality, boundaries are explored with respect, and consent

It’s Chief here, diving deep into the world of BDSM and D/S (Dominance and submission) to shed light on some

Thinking about visiting a professional Dominatrix? What’s it really like? Diving into the world of professional BDSM isn’t just about

In the KE community and via the comments on my guides, I get the sense that people are mistaking abusive

It’s easy to get bogged down in the complexities of BDSM as a beginner. But really, there are just a

So you’ve stumbled across this website because you’re curious about BDSM and want to learn more. Should you do an

Sub Drop. It’s the emotional hangover of BDSM, and trust me, it’s real. “Sub Drop” (sometimes written Sub-drop or Subdrop)

Boot worship is a BDSM kink or fetish where individuals derive sexual arousal and enjoyment from boots. It is one

Topping from the bottom is when a person who has agreed to relinquish power in a power-play dynamic attempts to

Powerplay in Dom/sub relationships is a fundamental aspect of BDSM dynamics. It involves the exchange of power and control between

There’s one question I’ve been asked countless times over the years. How do I be a good submissive for my

If you are new to BDSM you might not be familiar with aftercare. Aftercare refers to the soothing care provided

The world of kink and BDSM is massive. If you are new this can be both daunting and exciting. There

You and your Dominant have been texting up a storm. They talk about tying you up to the bedposts and

Often in a BDSM dynamic, we can get focused on care coming from an external place. A Daddy-Dom caring for

Not long ago during a Sunday evening in lockdown my wife asked me a question. “When was it that you

You know how your body reacts to just the thought of being dominated by a strong, powerful man? It begins