E47: A BDSM couple try two fun and kinky exercises to improve communication between vanilla and kinky lovers

Chief and Moineau discuss Stephanie Goylich’s book ‘With Sprinkles on Top’ and the importance of communication in bridging the gap between kinky and vanilla partners.

We compare mental fantasies with real-world practicality (including threesome and more-some discussions!), as well as negotiating and compromising in relationships.

We then try out two exercises from the book – a mad-lib style desire sharing exercise, and one to gauge our comfort levels with erotic language.

If you’re a kinky person looking for ways to improve your relationship and get more comfortable sharing your desires with a partner then this podcast is for you!

Resources

Stephanie Goerlich’s website: https://www.stefanigoerlich.com
The PDF of exercises: https://www.stefanigoerlich.com/negotiationwkshts.html
Our website: https://kinkyevents.co.uk

Timestamps

00:00 Introduction
00:58 Kinky Statistics
02:28 Introducing the Book: With Sprinkles on Top
04:39 Exploring Kink and Communication
06:50 Personal Kink Experiences and Fantasies
10:01 Discussing Threesomes and Boundaries
24:06 Fantasy Worksheet Exercise
33:42 Exploring Desires and Fantasies
34:19 Power Dynamics and Control
35:24 Communication and Connection
37:05 Erotic Vocabulary Exercise

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