Chief and Moineau are back, answering more of your burning BDSM and relationship questions!
Ever wondered what to do if impact play isn’t your thing? Or whether all Doms need a title? They break down alternatives for brats and subs who aren’t into spanking, and debate the role of labels in the Dom/sub dynamic. Plus, what’s the best way to meet a unicorn? Moineau shares an update on mastering the cowgirl position and Chief reveals his latest quest for the ultimate male sex toy – this time, an octopus-like vibrating stroker.
Key timestamps
- [00:06:00] Chief and Moineau discuss the challenges of a part-time D/s relationship without a 24/7 commitment.
- [00:28:00] Not into impact play? They explore alternatives, from psychological play to restraints.
- [00:29:00] Do all Doms need a title? Chief and Moineau debate the importance of labels.
- [00:56:00] Why meeting new people at events can be awkward, and how to master small talk.
- [00:57:00] Swingers clubs vs. dating apps: which is the better way to find play partners?
- [00:58:00] How attachment styles shape polyamorous relationships, inspired by Polysecure.
- [00:59:00] Moineau’s cowgirl position update. Who really holds the power?
- [01:00:00] Chief tests out a new toy from China: an octopus-like vibrating stroker.
- [01:02:00] Send us your sex toy suggestions
- [01:03:00] The ultimate goal: a sex toy sponsorship and endless freebies!



Came across your site a month ago and read/ listened to all content. Keep the podcasts coming – they are fab. Thank you for making kink normal ♥️
Thanks for stopping by and leaving a comment. I’m glad you enjoyed this episode. There’s always so much to answer!
When will the next podcast be published? ☺️
Hopefully soon! Moineau is under the weather at the moment but at some point we’ll get around to recording the rest of the questions as there are lots to get through.