Debating Orgasm Control at the London D&S Discussion Munch
This week I attended the London D&S Discussion Munch. The topic of the night was orgasm control, and I wanted […]
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Becoming the Dom I Wanted to Be (Without the Stereotypes)
When I first dipped my toes into BDSM, I felt like an explorer setting off without a map. Some of
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Objectification Ideas: Creative Ways to Objectify Your Submissive
Objectification is when the Dominant treats the submissive as an object. There are many ways someone can be objectified. The
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15 BDSM Training Ideas and Exercises
I was disappointed at the quality of BDSM training I saw online. I wanted more in-depth information. I wanted it
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8 BDSM Sex Positions to Try Today (For the Curious and Adventurous)
Ready to inject a kinky spark into your relationship? Whether you’re just curious about BDSM or already dipping your toes
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BDSM Switch: Embracing Your Dominant and Submissive Sides
Curious about switching roles in BDSM? Being a “switch” means enjoying both dominant and submissive roles, depending on the situation
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The Enforced Bedtime Kink Explained (Benefits and Tips)
The concept of forcing your partner to be in bed by a specific time may sound unusual at first, but
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Forced Orgasm Kink: How to safely introduce this BDSM practice for heightened pleasure and extra thrills
What on earth are forced orgasms? Why do some couples partake in this practice? And how can YOU introduce it
The CNC Kink: Consensual Non-Consent Ultimate BDSM Guide
Consensual non-consent (often shortened to CNC) is a kink where partners consensually agree to role-play a scenario that mimics non-consent.
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Why social stigma around BDSM shouldn’t stop you from exploring your desires
BDSM, and those who practice it, still attract cynicism, and carry the weight of social stigma. Even in today’s more
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5 signs you might be a Submissive (even if you’re unsure)
You’ve heard about submission, maybe even felt drawn to it, but you’re not sure if it’s really for you. That’s
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How to safely explore your submissive desires in a relationship
You’ve been thinking about exploring your submissive side, and the idea excites you. But every time you consider talking to
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3 common myths about submission that might be holding you back
When you’re new to exploring submission, it can feel like diving into the deep end of a pool with no
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E47: A BDSM couple try two fun and kinky exercises to improve communication between vanilla and kinky lovers
Chief and Moineau discuss Stephanie Goylich’s book ‘With Sprinkles on Top’ and the importance of communication in bridging the gap
E46: 30 surprisingly simple exercises to supercharge communication and transform your sex life!
Chief presents 30 varied exercises designed to improve communication skills within BDSM and D/s relationships. These activities aim to deepen
E45: Relaxed intimacy: Sexting, massage, teasing, and edging – Oh My!
Chief and Moineau share a candid conversation about their recent intimate and sensual experience. They discuss reading explicit sexting exchanges,
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Kinky and curious? 6 beginner-friendly BDSM ideas to try tonight!
If you’re curious about trying BDSM in the bedroom but aren’t sure where to start, you’re in the right place.
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Living the kinky life: How to overcome the stigma of BDSM in a judgmental world
Sarah and her partner had just started exploring BDSM together, and after months of deepening their connection, Sarah felt confident
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From Bland Hookups to 6-Hour BDSM Session: Woman Ditches Vanilla Dating for Dominant Bliss
The following is a submission by a female reader based on London who emailed to share her first experience of
E44: Sex Menu walk-through (have our tastes changed!?)
Chief and Moineau revisit their Sex Menus from March 2020, and chat through what’s changed and what hasn’t. This episode
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E43: Finding BDSM events and making friends
Chief and Moineau spill the beans on finding BDSM events and making kinky friends. It’s a no-holds-barred chat filled with
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E42: A new sub discusses her experiences 3 months after introducing BDSM into an 11-year relationship
Chief and Moineau sit down with Liz who recently introduced D/s into an existing long-term relationship. With humour and candidness,
E41: 8 Common BDSM myths debunked
In this episode Chief clears up misconceptions about the BDSM and Dom/sub lifestyle. With a wealth of experience and knowledge,
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BDSM for Beginners: Everything You Need to Know to Get Started
Welcome to the fascinating world of BDSM, a place where fantasy meets reality, boundaries are explored with respect, and consent
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Debunking 8 common BDSM myths
It’s Chief here, diving deep into the world of BDSM and D/S (Dominance and submission) to shed light on some
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E40: What’s it like visiting a professional Dominatrix?
What’s it REALLY like to visit a professional Dominatrix? In this episode of Conversations wtih a Dom Chief, Moineau, and
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8 things you should know before visiting a professional Dominatrix
Thinking about visiting a professional Dominatrix? What’s it really like? Diving into the world of professional BDSM isn’t just about
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E39: Autism and Kink, Pup Play, and Puppy Ireland with Puppy Ripley
In this BDSM podcast episode, we dive deep into the world of pup play, and neurodivergence. Joining us as our
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Healthy vs abusive and manipulative BDSM relationships (advice you need to hear)
In the KE community and via the comments on my guides, I get the sense that people are mistaking abusive
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4 exciting flavours of power play to explore as a BDSM beginner (with 50+ examples)
Welcome to the world of power play, where the thrill of dominance and submission can bring an electrifying edge to
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11 reflections on being a BDSM educator in 2023: Looking, learning, and a lot of work
Hey, kinksters. 2023 has been a year filled with ups, downs, and a few sideways glances. I wanted to write
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10 fundamental guidelines to follow for a healthy and happy BDSM relationship
It’s easy to get bogged down in the complexities of BDSM as a beginner. But really, there are just a
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5 reasons an online BDSM course beats an in-person one
So you’ve stumbled across this website because you’re curious about BDSM and want to learn more. Should you do an
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