Are you a beginner sub confused about where to begin on your BDSM journey? This episode of Conversations With A Dom is a must-listen for you!
In this episode, Chief and Moineau discuss nine common mistakes beginner subs make and how to avoid them. From getting into sub frenzy to not understanding what you want from the dynamic, we’ll cover all the important aspects of being a successful sub.
They share their own personal experiences and give insights on what it takes to make a successful start in the BDSM community.
As someone who has been in the BDSM scene for a while, I know firsthand how overwhelming sub frenzy can be. It’s not necessarily a positive experience, and sometimes it’s important for others to call you out on it. But please don’t think they’re judging you. We just want to look out for your well-being.
Moineau
Episode description
Discovering the BDSM world as a beginner submissive can be incredibly exciting, but it can also lead to repeated mistakes that can emotional pain if you’re not careful. In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, we discuss beginner subs’ common mistakes and how to avoid them. Our conversation involves everything you need to know about BDSM, including creating a sex menu, understanding terminology, finding a dominant, and avoiding people who might take advantage of you.
The discussion emphasizes the importance of taking time and sense-checking your journey to avoid sub-frenzy. We look at how communication, negotiations, and defining core desires are crucial in creating a successful dynamic. We discuss the importance of developing a support community and attending kinky events to connect with like-minded people and learn new skills.
Join us as we celebrate progress and growth on the kinky journey while being kind to ourselves.
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- How to define core desires, create a sex menu and develop a supportive community.
- The importance of community and interacting with like-minded people.
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