Objectification Ideas: Creative Ways to Objectify Your Submissive

Objectification is when the Dominant treats the submissive as an object. There are many ways someone can be objectified. The most common would be to objectify their body – it is seen as a sex toy for the Dominant to use for their own sexual pleasure. Another form of objectification might be less sexual, instead making the submissive act as a literal object, such as a table or footstool.

Any act where the submissive is being used as an object by the Dominant counts. As with all kinks, both parties involved must enjoy objectification and have consented to it.

Not all submissives enjoy being objectified. You MUST learn to communicate with your partner about what you enjoy and what they enjoy. Only objectify them if they enjoy it (and you enjoy doing it! Just because your sub enjoys it doesn’t mean you have to). Objectifying someone without their consent is never appropriate.

Why do people enjoy being objectified?

Some people enjoy being objectified because it feels freeing. It’s about giving up control and letting their partner take over. This can be a huge relief from everyday worries. Surrendering can make them feel safe and cared for.

For submissives, being objectified makes them feel more connected. It shows they are valued for serving and pleasing their partner. Knowing they are wanted and used for pleasure can be satisfying. It can bring a special kind of relaxation. They don’t have to think or be in charge–just exist in the moment.

It’s also a way to explore new sides of themselves. When treated like an object, they don’t worry about what others think. It’s a break from their usual identity. It’s a chance to feel confident in a different role. It can deepen the bond with their partner, showing trust and connection. With clear consent, objectification is a way to play, explore, and strengthen relationships.

Sexual objectification ideas

As a Dominant you might objectify your submissive in the following sexual ways. The core theme of sexual objectification is that the sub is there only to gratify the Dominant sexually.

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1. Writing on their body in a way that accentuates their use. “My property”, “My slut”, “Fucktoy”. Drawing an arrow pointing at their genitals saying “Daddy’s fuck hole”, “Sir’s cumdump” or “Mommy’s dildo”.
2. With dirty talk. “Lie still whilst I use your holes”, “Open your mouth so I can use you like a fuck doll”, “Your holes belong to me, understand?”, “Your cock is just a tool for my pleasure”, “Bend over so I can get a good look at what’s mine”.
3. As a fuck doll. Pretend they are an inanimate sex doll. Position them however you want and use their body to get yourself off.
4. As a cum canvas. Ejaculate on their body and then use your finger to draw or write something.
5. To warm your cock. Engage in cockwarming and have them either keep your cock hard and warm in their mouth, ass, or vagina.
6. To keep your vagina or ass full. If you are a female Dominant then use your submissive’s cock to keep your vagina full for a pleasurable sensation as you sit on their lap and do other things.
7. As a dildo. Tie your male sub to a bed and ride them, or have them stand against a wall and back into their cock. They are not allowed to move.
8. As a spit receptacle: Spit in their mouth or on their body to reinforce dominance and ownership.
9. As a sex toy tester: Use different toys or props on them, referring to them as a testing platform to try out new sensations.
10. Face-sitting throne: Use their face as your seat, reinforcing their role as a source of your pleasure.
11. As a punishment post: Attach them to a post or pole, showcasing their disciplined position for display.
12. Personal toy chest: Have them carry toys, lube, and restraints on a tray or in their hands for you to access at will.
13. Cum holder: Have them hold your cum in their mouth or on their body, not allowed to swallow or clean up until you permit it.
14. Edging platform: Bring them to the edge of orgasm repeatedly, using their body as a tool for your amusement without letting them climax.
15. Gag reflex play: Push into their mouth to explore their limits and maintain control of their breathing and reflexes.
16. Orgasm denial toy: Use their genitals for your pleasure while denying them the ability to climax, making them an outlet for your satisfaction only.
17. As a warm mouth: Command them to keep your body part, like your fingers or cock, in their mouth for warmth and anticipation.
18. Face as masturbation aid. Have them lie on their back, squat over them, and run your cock or clitoris over their face.
19. Pleasure training tool: Train them to react a specific way when touched in certain areas, emphasizing their role as a responsive toy.
20. Cum receptacle: Direct them to swallow or take your cum on their face or chest, treating them as a disposable object for release.
21. Lustful mirror: Have them watch themselves being used in front of a mirror, highlighting their object status and their role in satisfying you.
22. Breeding prop: Simulate or engage in breeding play by positioning them for your pleasure without letting them move.
23. Public display tool: Use subtle body contact under a table or in a public setting where they have to stay composed while you enjoy their discomfort.
24. Anal or vaginal plug: Insert a toy into them and have them keep it in while you go about other activities, reminding them they are prepared for use.
25. Body for scent marking: Rub your fluids on their skin, marking them as yours in a primal display of ownership.
26. Throat toy: Use their throat as a tool for deep play, pushing your limits with controlled gagging for power dynamics.
27. Masturbation aid: Command them to remain still while you use their body to bring yourself to orgasm.
28. As a waiting hole: Have them stay positioned with their body open and ready, waiting for you to use them at your convenience.
29. Double penetration anchor: Position them as a brace or support during double penetration play, making them essential but secondary to your enjoyment.
30. Orgasm collector: Have them lick or suck every last drop of your cum from your body, emphasizing their job as your cleanup tool.
31. Toy insertion stand: Use their body to hold inserted toys while you direct their response, keeping them at the perfect angle for your pleasure.
32. Restrained witness: Bind them in place so they watch while you pleasure yourself or another, reinforcing their role as an observer only.
33. Nipple service: Command them to suckle or play with your nipples to serve your arousal, using their mouth as an object for stimulation.
34. Leg spreader: Use restraints or direct orders to keep their legs open wide, ready for inspection or use.
35. Spanking receiver: Place them in a vulnerable position specifically for spanking while you talk to them as if they’re nothing but an object needing discipline.
36. Face-fucking station: Hold their head in place as you control the depth and speed, reinforcing that they’re an object for your use.
37. Clit teaser: Use their face or a specific body part as a source of teasing, positioning them for your pleasure without reciprocation.
38. As a handjob tool: Wrap their hand around your cock or body and guide their movement, emphasizing that their hand exists solely for your stimulation.
39. Deep throat reminder: Push into their mouth until tears well up, holding them there to remind them of their place and purpose.
40. Cum-catcher panties: Make them wear underwear soaked with your fluids, ensuring your scent and ownership are ever-present on them.
41. Sensory deprivation object: Blindfold and gag them while you play with their body, turning them into a tool that reacts without sight or speech.
42. Edge countdown: Control their climax by instructing them to bring themselves to the brink on your command, stopping only when you say so.
43. Rim service: Use their mouth for rimming, reinforcing their purpose as your tool for pleasure.
44. Submissive vibrator: Hold their body in place while using a vibrator on them, ensuring that their reactions are purely for your visual and tactile pleasure.

Non-sexual objectification ideas

And here are some ways to use a submissive non-sexually to make them feel objectified. Many of these overlap with being a service submissive.

1. Human step stool: Command them to kneel or bend for you to use them as a boost to reach something higher up.
2. Mouth decoration: Use their open mouth to hold a decorative item, like a flower or piece of cloth, to underscore their aesthetic purpose.
3. As a display board: Attach signs or post-it notes to their body that serve as reminders or declarations, such as “Obedient pet” or “Service in progress”.
4. As a pet: Leash them and make them walk on all fours, using pet play to heighten the sense of non-human status.
5. Eye contact restriction: Blindfold them and instruct them not to look at you, highlighting their function as an object without a gaze.
6. Vocal reminder: Train them to recite affirmations like “I am your object” whenever you snap your fingers.
7. Body ink canvas: Paint or draw intricate designs on their body, emphasizing their objectification as art.
8. Nipple decor: Hang small chains, bells, or other items from nipple clamps, turning them into a decorative object.
9. As a foot cleaner: Make them use their tongue to clean your feet, emphasizing their servitude and object status.
10. Personal rug: Lay them down and use their body to step on when walking around the room.
11. Comfort rest: Use their body as a pillow while lying on the couch or bed, reminding them they exist for your ease.
12. Kneeling assistant: Have them hold items like a phone, remote, or book on their hands and knees as you lounge.
13. As a workout tool: Have them hold positions such as planking or act as weight resistance while you exercise.
14. As a pole: Command them to stand rigidly while you use them as a dance pole or prop for stretching.
15. Clothing rack: Hang items of clothing from their outstretched arms or shoulders to underline their utility.
16. As a chair: Sit on your partner’s back, chest, or lap, using them as a piece of furniture for your comfort.
17. Leashed display: Attach a leash and collar, parading them around to reinforce ownership.
18. Silent mannequin: Dress them up in an outfit of your choice, then have them stand still and be admired like a display model.
19. Objectified ornament: Pose them on all fours or in a decorative stance and leave them there as part of the room’s décor.
20. Body as a tray: Use their torso or back to hold drinks or food during a meal or party.
21. As a writing surface: Use a pen or marker to write to-do lists or messages on their body, reminding them of their submissive status.
22. As a mirror: Have them hold a mirror or reflective surface so you can check your appearance, emphasizing their role as a tool.
23. Limb restraint holder: Bind their arms in such a way that you can use them to hang or display items like towels or clothes.
24. Thigh as a book rest: Place a book or tablet on their thighs while sitting for convenience during reading time.
25. Human ashtray: Use their mouth or an outstretched hand as an ashtray in more intense scenarios.
26. Soundless servant: Instruct them to act as a butler, silent and motionless until needed for fetching items or service.
27. Body paint target: Cover their skin in edible body paint and use their body as a treat, emphasizing their status as a consumable object.
28. As a footstool. Have them kneel on all fours and rest your legs on their back.
29. As a toilet. More extreme, but have them kneel and use their body or mouth as a toilet.
30. As a table. Either kneeling or laying down, rest items on their back such as a drink or plate as you eat.
31. As a shoe shiner: Have them polish your shoes by hand or tongue, reinforcing their role as someone who serves your needs.
32. Personal masseuse: Command them to massage your feet, shoulders, or back without expecting anything in return.
33. Petting station: Make them stay by your side as you absentmindedly pet them, like a beloved but silent pet.
34. Human leash holder: Have them hold a leash while kneeling, acting as a symbolic representation of their submission.
35. Silent listener: Command them to listen without speaking while you vent, using their presence as a therapeutic object.
36. Notebook holder: Position them to hold a notebook or a clipboard while you jot down thoughts or tasks.
37. Standing coat rack: Instruct them to hold your coat or jacket when you return home, serving as a stand-in coat rack.
38. Human alarm clock: Train them to wake you up at specific times or with specific phrases, acting as a personalized reminder system.
39. Dinner server: Make them serve your meals, placing food or drinks on the table without joining or speaking.
40. Personal organizer: Have them arrange your belongings in a specific order, using their hands as extensions of your control.
41. Portable fan: Instruct them to fan you with a handheld fan or paper during hot weather, reinforcing their role as an object for comfort.
42. Book page-turner: Have them sit by your side and turn the pages of a book while you read, acting as an obedient reading assistant.
43. Human display stand: Position them to hold a picture frame or decorative object, acting as a living display.
44. Door holder: Station them by the door to open and hold it whenever you pass through.
45. As a human foot warmer: Have them sit or lie under your feet to keep them warm while you rest or read.
46. Soundless footstool: Place them in a kneeling or lying position to act as a footstool while you work or relax.
47. Drink fetcher: Command them to fetch water, tea, or any beverage when you need it, acting as a silent server.
48. Task checklist: Use them to verbally recite your daily to-do list, reinforcing their role in supporting your productivity.
49. Hairbrush holder: Have them stand still, holding your hairbrush or comb until you’re ready to use it.
50. Furniture cleaner: Assign them to polish tables, chairs, or shelves while remaining silent and focused on the task at hand.

Psychological objectification ideas

1. Referred to as “it”: Replace their name with “it” during play to strip them of identity and reinforce their role as an object.
2. Permission to exist: Make them ask for permission to speak, move, or even make eye contact, emphasizing that they are only present to serve.
3. Identity erasure: Have them wear a mask or hood that anonymizes them, turning them into an indistinguishable figure.
4. Mantra reinforcement: Make them recite phrases like “I am nothing but your tool” or “This body is yours to use” to solidify their mindset.
5. Verbal dismissal: Say things like, “You don’t need to think; I’ll do that for you,” reinforcing that their only role is to follow instructions.
6. Emotionless use: Use their body without acknowledging their feelings, communicating that they’re there purely for function, not emotion.
7. Furniture play with a twist: Have them kneel as a footstool or table but maintain strict silence, emphasizing their presence as non-living.
8. No face, no name: Cover their face and refer to them by their role, like “property” or “object,” to detach them from their human identity.
9. Punishment for identity: Correct them if they use words like “I” or “me,” reminding them they are not a person in that moment.
10. Mimic obedience: Instruct them to mimic a robot or inanimate object, moving only when commanded with specific phrases.
11. Staring into nothing: Have them keep their gaze fixed on a wall or into space, communicating that they aren’t there to engage but to exist as a silent presence.
12. Serving without recognition: Instruct them to perform tasks while being ignored, reinforcing that their worth lies solely in their service.
13. Silent companion: Bring them into a room and have them stay quietly in the corner, ensuring they feel like part of the background.
14. Vocal non-person: Make them talk about themselves in the third person, such as “This object will do what Sir/Miss wants,” disconnecting them from their identity.
15. Scripted speech: Only allow them to speak in phrases you have pre-approved, emphasizing their role as an extension of your will.
16. Time without autonomy: Have them sit in the same place for an extended time, motionless, to remind them they exist as an object until given a command.
17. Service reminder: Attach a label or tag to them that says “In service” or “Property,” reinforcing that they are there for use only.
18. Task automaton: Assign repetitive tasks like folding clothes or polishing shoes with strict instructions to perform without emotion.
19. Sensory deprivation: Blindfold and earmuff them, limiting their interaction with the environment and emphasizing their place as an object without agency.
20. Bathroom control: Only allow them to use the bathroom when you say, reminding them that even basic functions are at your discretion.

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