BDSM Courses

BDSM courses for beginners. Learn the art of dominance and submission.

Kinky Events offers BDSM courses which you can take online at you own pace from the comfort of your own home.

Hi, I’m Chief, a London based Dominant.

I founded Kinky Events in 2019 to help people learn the basics of BDSM and how to incorporate consensual dominance and submission into their relationships.

Over the years I’ve developed a number of BDSM courses for beginners, as well as writing a BDSM book for Dominants (Sensational Scenes).

Myself and my sub Moineau also run a podcast called Conversations with a Dom where we talk about our D/s dynamic, and how we fit it into every day life.

You can have a listen to it to see we are just a regular couple like anybody else. If we can have a D/s relationship, so can you!

If you like our content then you’ll love the BDSM courses we’ve put together. Each course will help you become the best Dominant or submissive you can be, spice up your sex life, and make your kinky fantasies are reality.

BDSM courses available

Kinky Events has several BDSM courses and BDSM training available depending upon what you want to learn.

Online BDSM Course

The Art of Submission

Learn how to become a great submissive and make your Dom sub fantasies a reality with our online course designed for beginners curious about BDSM and power play.

Online BDSM Course

Sinful Shibari

The Sinful Shibari programme is a step-by-step method to learn rope bondage for sexual play, designed for those in D/s dynamics. It’s the only rope course that not only teaches you in detail how to tie someone up, but also gives you ideas and psychological techniques to heighten arousal and induce deep subspace once they’re restrained.

What you’ll learn

By taking these BDSM courses you’ll learn essential skills needed to navigate the complex world of BDSM, including:

  • Where to look for suitable BDSM partners.
  • Vetting partners for short and long-term BDSM relationships in order to keep yourself safe, including red flags to watch out for.
  • Understanding your core desires, and overcoming shame and guilt surrounding your kinks.
  • Figuring out what type of Dominant or submissive you are.
  • Learning the essential techniques for impact play, rope bondage, and more.
  • Becoming more confident in asking for what you want.
  • Improving your way of communicating with your partners in a way that expands your relationship and keeps things fresh and exciting.
  • Overcoming common obstacles beginners to BDSM often experience

Meet the instructors

Chief

Chief, founder of Kinky Events

The majority of the courses are created by Chief, a 40-something male Dominant living in London, and founder of Kinky Events. (Yes, I’m writing the very text your reading!)

Chief takes a practical and structured approach to BDSM, and has a particular interest in dominance and submission. He started learning BDSM over ten years ago when women he was dating started asking him to dominant them.

Having absolutely no clue what they meant by this he set about Googling. Finding very little useful information he had to learn BDSM the hard way, cobbling together what little info there was.

Eventually he decided to share what he knew so others could learn BDSM is a safe and consensual manner in order to enhance their relationships. And that’s how Kinky Events and these courses were born.

Chief is in a D/s dynamic with Moineau.

Moineau

Aria Moineau submissive coaching

Moineau is a 30-something female and Chief’s submissive. Moineau helps provide the female and submissive perspective during course lessons, and provides a more rounded set of knowledge that Chief’s alone.

Moineau is hugely passionate about BDSM and kink, regularly reading up on the subject in a variety of sources.

BDSM courses for beginners. Moineau wears a bondage set of thigh and ankle restraints

Why take a BDSM course?

Choosing a BDSM course is a significant step towards understanding and safely exploring the world of BDSM.

These courses offer structured and comprehensive guidance on the essentials of BDSM, including techniques, safety, and consent.

They provide a safe space to learn about your preferences and limits, and how to communicate them effectively.

Additionally, these courses are taught by experienced practitioners, offering insights into the psychological aspects and the importance of mutual respect and boundaries in BDSM relationships. Whether you’re a beginner or looking to deepen your knowledge, a BDSM course is a valuable resource for a responsible and fulfilling experience in the BDSM community.

FAQs about our BDSM courses

What prior knowledge or experience do I need to enroll in a BDSM course?

None! Our BDSM courses are designed for beginners and intermediates. Even if you’ve never touched a paddle before you’ll learn lots about yourself and the world of BDSM.

How do you ensure safety and consent during the courses?

Our courses emphasis safety and consent AT ALL TIMES. You only have to listen to Moineau and I on our podcast to hear how many times we say that communication, safety, and consent are the foundation of BDSM. We want you to know that so you can play safely. Plus, because the BDSM course is online and you complete it in the privacy of your own home, there’s absolutely no risk to your safety (expect if you live with your parents and they walk in when you’re watching our lessons!)

Are the BDSM courses suitable for individuals and couples?

Yes! We have all sorts of people taking our courses from people who have been married 30 years to those who are single and want to practise their skills for when they do meet someone. Because some of our BDSM training focuses on the psychology of BDSM you can learn it without a partner.

What practical skills can I expect to learn from these BDSM courses?

That depends on which of our training you take. Each course has a page detailing all the practical skills you will learn. One of the courses (Sinful Shibari) focuses on rope bondage where you’ll learn how to tie knots, complete ties, and use them in a sexual scenario. Another of the courses (The Art of Submission) has practical lessons on developing a BDSM scene, finding a partner, and creating your Submissive Blueprint through a series of exercises.

Can I remain anonymous during the course?

Yes! Because all of our courses are online you remain completely anonymous. Noone will ever know you’ve taken it, unless you want them to!

What format are the lessons?

Each BDSM course is a mix of video lessons, practical exercises you do in workbooks, and text. They are delivered via our e-learning platform which is available on desktop, tablet, or mobile.

Do I learn at my own pace? Is it lifetime access?

Yes. You are free to complete the lessons at your own pace. You have lifetime access to the course after purchase for a single, one-off fee. You can repeat and refer to the lessons as many times as you wish.